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So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam Send a noteboard - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM

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Enabling the transgender person to reconcile their self-identification the way they want doesn't kill them.

Biopolar-ness in and of itself doesn't kill them. Depression doesn't in and of itself kill them. OCD tendencies do not (tyipcally) in and of themselves kill them. And the treatment for these conditions doesn't kill them....

Yet we help them all the same.

Why on this one topic, do we enable them to live out a reality that doesn't exist? And beyond that, they can "reconcile" their self-identification all they want....they still aren't that other gender. Jenner is still a man. Cher's child is still a woman. All the cosmetic surgery and hormonal work...all the re-issued government ID's...all of the "self-identification" they want to pursue....they are still their original gender.

That hasn't changed.

~Jeordam

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Self-Identification vs. Mental Health Issue *trigger warning* Jeordam - 06/03/2017 08:53:17 PM 1105 Views
I have to say I'm very confused about what your question is... and I don't think it's just me. Legolas - 07/03/2017 12:04:27 AM 831 Views
Yes, I'm talking about... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:03:18 PM 847 Views
Okay, clear. Legolas - 07/03/2017 06:50:00 PM 834 Views
<3 *NM* nossy - 07/03/2017 06:57:23 PM 405 Views
Mind over Matter? Jeordam - 07/03/2017 09:06:53 PM 805 Views
Mind over body might've been more apt. I believe I did answer your question actually. Legolas - 07/03/2017 10:41:01 PM 911 Views
Let's be clear.... Jeordam - 07/03/2017 11:17:02 PM 790 Views
By all means. Legolas - 07/03/2017 11:58:41 PM 822 Views
Well that's the crux of the topic isn't it.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 05:48:50 PM 741 Views
That takes us right back to body vs mind, doesn't it? Legolas - 08/03/2017 07:13:32 PM 776 Views
Well that would be the difference... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 08:54:59 PM 830 Views
So do tell me what in fact the purpose of our discussion is, then? Legolas - 08/03/2017 09:40:09 PM 773 Views
What can I possibly say? Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:45:54 PM 772 Views
There's a distinction to be made with eating disorders. Ghavrel - 08/03/2017 08:31:08 PM 781 Views
That brings us all the way back around.... Jeordam - 08/03/2017 09:05:40 PM 836 Views
Because nossy - 08/03/2017 09:30:37 PM 830 Views
Two things... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:50:32 PM 779 Views
you're missing a rather obvious difference, aren't you? damookster - 08/03/2017 09:50:09 PM 800 Views
Yeah, Snoop was just saying the same. nossy - 08/03/2017 10:14:41 PM 834 Views
Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 07:12:26 PM 811 Views
Re: Well now we are bridging a rather big gap.... nossy - 09/03/2017 08:52:30 PM 903 Views
So two conversations now..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:39:55 PM 790 Views
Re: So two conversations now..... nossy - 09/03/2017 10:23:39 PM 791 Views
And this is what you're overlooking.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 10:47:47 PM 812 Views
I could be wrong nossy - 09/03/2017 11:15:22 PM 782 Views
Sex vs Gender Jeordam - 09/03/2017 11:33:54 PM 767 Views
So this is an interesting point..... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 05:56:12 PM 808 Views
Sure about that? damookster - 09/03/2017 08:53:14 PM 777 Views
It's a mater of persepctive.... Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:12:09 PM 800 Views
wrong damookster - 09/03/2017 09:41:53 PM 710 Views
Sure. Jeordam - 09/03/2017 09:57:48 PM 833 Views
sure, could be damookster - 09/03/2017 11:56:31 PM 735 Views
I feel like this has been said several times already, in several ways Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 04:10:27 PM 772 Views
It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Jeordam - 10/03/2017 06:01:06 PM 801 Views
Re: It has been said, and I understand what is being said... Sareitha Sedai - 10/03/2017 07:58:57 PM 779 Views
I find your wording problematic and agenda driven. damookster - 07/03/2017 11:58:03 PM 789 Views
I appolozie if I offended Jeordam - 08/03/2017 06:18:41 PM 787 Views
no worries damookster - 08/03/2017 06:36:10 PM 803 Views
It always goes from it doesn't hurt anyone to the whole world has to change accommodate me *NM* random thoughts - 10/03/2017 02:46:38 AM 469 Views
That's true - doesn't change the issue as such but certainly there's intolerance on that side too. *NM* Legolas - 10/03/2017 07:45:43 AM 409 Views
Both extremes are dangerous random thoughts - 10/03/2017 12:59:41 PM 843 Views
Take your trigger warnings back to tumblr where they belong ßelals Girl - 07/03/2017 12:21:05 PM 937 Views
*ha* Jeordam - 07/03/2017 05:04:10 PM 830 Views
I self-identify as a deity, so I need you to use My preferred pronouns in reference to Myself Cannoli - 07/03/2017 05:15:56 PM 743 Views
So I could self-identify aerocontrols - 08/03/2017 12:36:39 AM 757 Views
I read through this thread. kazetaran - 10/03/2017 12:44:03 AM 1103 Views
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