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I'm with you... Antigone Send a noteboard - 19/10/2009 11:32:08 PM
...except you said it much more nicely than I would have!

As a person who has chosen to not have children, I hate it when people think that parents should have special treatment. That I'm expected to take the shit schedules 'cause I don't have kids to put on or get off the bus.

Once, at my former job, there was a situation in which another worker or I would have to travel to the other side of the state for a couple of days. Neither of us wanted to go. The other worker kept complaining that since he and his wife recently adopted a baby, he shouldn't have to go. He actually followed me through the office trying to make me feel guilty, suggesting that I should volunteer to go because of his baby. I finally told him that he should have thought of these situations before he went out a bought a baby. Heh...guess I could have been a bit more tactful...

I have no problem with parental leave; I get it that new parents want to spend time with their spawn. But while the happy little family is busy bonding away, someone else has to cover their work. That someone ends up being me, at least for a bit of it, and with no extra money. As my workload increases, my sympathy for parents decreases.

Antigone
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Absolutely. - 19/10/2009 06:06:05 PM 643 Views
"coming down from ON high" is the proper expression - 19/10/2009 09:46:41 PM 659 Views
Thank you. I did not know that. *NM* - 20/10/2009 01:38:46 AM 236 Views
...does that matter if he didn't do his job, and that had negative consequences for the company? *NM* - 19/10/2009 06:28:03 PM 257 Views
As long as its ok for people to sack women who get pregnant - 19/10/2009 07:59:58 PM 613 Views
Women who get pregnant and are using that as an excuse to not do their jobs? Sure. - 19/10/2009 09:11:56 PM 653 Views
I'm with you... - 19/10/2009 11:32:08 PM 641 Views
Thats not at all what I'm saying - 20/10/2009 12:40:28 AM 616 Views
Lots of assumptions. - 20/10/2009 01:54:02 AM 567 Views
Like I said... assumptions - 20/10/2009 01:40:23 PM 670 Views
Can you work and give birth at the same time? - 20/10/2009 12:27:45 AM 640 Views
Oh. - 20/10/2009 01:32:59 PM 630 Views
Re: Oh. - 20/10/2009 01:47:33 PM 643 Views
LOL - 20/10/2009 01:51:34 PM 564 Views
I hadn't read that, it was posted after I commented - 20/10/2009 10:49:19 PM 576 Views
I agree. Companies aren't charities. - 19/10/2009 09:47:43 PM 583 Views
So you're against maternity pay? - 20/10/2009 12:29:07 AM 631 Views
Where I work you have to use your sick leave and annual leave to cover maternity leave. - 20/10/2009 01:26:34 AM 584 Views
Same with my job... - 20/10/2009 01:56:00 AM 581 Views
And nobody gets special treatment. *NM* - 22/10/2009 01:16:13 AM 241 Views
Thats just one of the variations of maternity leave I was suggesting. - 20/10/2009 01:50:11 PM 595 Views
But that's what I was addressing when I talked about his choice. - 20/10/2009 01:54:30 PM 583 Views
That's why it's an employer and not a social worker... - 20/10/2009 09:58:00 PM 633 Views
How is this any different from sick leave? - 20/10/2009 10:20:50 PM 631 Views
Because the person is not there, mainly. - 21/10/2009 12:54:39 AM 570 Views
You pick up the slack because you're a super-wonderful person - 20/10/2009 10:56:04 PM 579 Views
No, I never said anything of the sort - 20/10/2009 03:14:07 PM 599 Views
I was simply saying - 20/10/2009 11:00:09 PM 544 Views
Had that happen to me. - 19/10/2009 04:15:45 PM 624 Views
I'm very sorry - 19/10/2009 05:35:57 PM 599 Views
Man that stinks. :/ - 19/10/2009 06:52:04 PM 647 Views
Yep... Hated it too. - 19/10/2009 07:48:31 PM 566 Views
It takes a special person to be a supervisor/manager. - 20/10/2009 01:21:42 AM 648 Views
Did he deserve it???? good question. - 20/10/2009 01:38:29 AM 701 Views
Seems like the answer is yes - 20/10/2009 01:37:15 PM 590 Views
Hmm - sounds to me like your boss is a coward - 29/10/2009 02:48:30 AM 551 Views
I have fired four people. - 20/10/2009 11:02:35 AM 635 Views
Why have I got an image of someone walking the plank? - 20/10/2009 10:52:30 PM 589 Views
Yep - and it sucks - 20/10/2009 07:05:35 PM 598 Views

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