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I disagree with relation to trigger warnings. Ghavrel Send a noteboard - 17/10/2017 11:17:45 PM

A good friend of mine is a pretty centrist ex-army guy. Definitely not your bleeding heart leftist. I remember one time we had a class that abruptly got pretty detailed on sexual assault--after the class, he went to the bathroom and vomited for about fifteen minutes. Turns out he'd been raped as a kid, and while he was able to remain composed during the class, the discussion was stressful enough to cause that reaction. He's fine as long as he knows that sort of discussion is coming; he prepares himself mentally for it. But it causes a problem when it comes up abruptly.

PTSD is a real and pretty common thing. Saying "we're going to discuss issues relating to sexual assault" is a courtesy that costs virtually nothing and can save people a lot of pain. Now, of course it can go overboard--people talking about trigger warnings for ageist microaggressions and the like is silly, and absurdities like not teaching about rape in a criminal law class is really unconscionable. But that shouldn't invalidate the entire concept.

"We feel safe when we read what we recognise, what does not challenge our way of thinking.... a steady acceptance of pre-arranged patterns leads to the inability to question what we are told."
~Camilla

Ghavrel is Ghavrel is Ghavrel

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This message last edited by Ghavrel on 17/10/2017 at 11:18:18 PM
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Thanks. - 17/10/2017 01:00:42 PM 961 Views
I disagree with relation to trigger warnings. - 17/10/2017 11:17:45 PM 1054 Views
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Nods - 18/10/2017 03:17:17 AM 969 Views
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I apologize before hand - 18/10/2017 01:11:59 AM 1009 Views
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Je ne regrette rien. My memes are both spicy and piquant. *NM* - 17/10/2017 11:20:55 PM 550 Views
I'm of Russian extraction. I like my food bland. Garlic, dill, salt, pepper. It's enough for me. - 18/10/2017 12:52:27 AM 968 Views
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I find him intriguing as a Captain. - 18/10/2017 01:09:07 PM 1121 Views
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*NM* - 18/10/2017 05:39:12 PM 554 Views
*NM* - 18/10/2017 06:27:31 PM 540 Views
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Re: Simple, true fredom is/includes the freedom to fail *NM* - 20/10/2017 05:45:51 PM 620 Views
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This entire thread was so awesome.... - 20/10/2017 07:12:46 PM 1064 Views
Jeo I think you in particular will appreciate this - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 1008 Views
Interesting.....wisdom from on high.... - 20/10/2017 09:58:36 PM 907 Views
damn it *NM* - 20/10/2017 09:07:39 PM 512 Views
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Definitely more than a bit. - 25/10/2017 12:51:55 PM 932 Views

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