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That's lawyer logic! Vivien Send a noteboard - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM
I think I was too harsh. I was mostly seeking to entertain- I said that my opinion counts for more than everyone else put together and then you posted and I could not resist. It's much easier, not to mention more fun, to offer a flip remark instead of answering your points.

Also I have to admit I was fighting a losing battle.

It's impossible for my opinion to count for less than nothing. If, as you say, my opinion is going to be disregarded for the sole reason that I hold it, then it does count for something, it just creates antipathy rather than sympathy. Opinions don't work like math, so that actually means my opinion counts for something. QED.

Now, why my opinion is held in such low regard is beyond me. In fact, it seems quite curious that the opinion of "you shouldn't decide on your own what a person you're dating is allowed or not allowed to do" would be rejected out of hand, considering statements that I've heard in the past.
This message last edited by Vivien on 24/03/2011 at 04:02:07 AM
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Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 649 Views
john lennon... MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:08:20 PM 1402 Views
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And her mother is Muslim. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1294 Views
What's it called? *NM* Legolas - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 659 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* Aisha - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 664 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1259 Views
Hm, okay. Legolas - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1413 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. Dragonsoul - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1345 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1391 Views
I'd prove it to you. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1280 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1240 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity Aisha - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1369 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1484 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone random thoughts - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1376 Views
Can you edit your post and take out the cow analogies? Thanks. *NM* Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:31:51 PM 664 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1246 Views
being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1259 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates Helene - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 1249 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience random thoughts - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 1240 Views
I don't date either... :-) Helene - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1456 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. nossy - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1342 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... Sareitha Sedai - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1284 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship Helene - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1272 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post Helene - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1243 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1293 Views
If you have a lot in common with him and like him and are attracted to him Helene - 24/03/2011 09:41:01 AM 1179 Views
I think you should date him. Palatine - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 1186 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. Morgawse - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 1230 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. Jeordam - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1279 Views
I agree with you. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1273 Views
And my opinion matters more than everyone else here combined! MWAHAHAHAHAHA Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:28:06 PM 1234 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... ironclad - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1240 Views
Because you never know. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1420 Views
Geez you know just the right things to say. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:38:34 AM 1265 Views
LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 637 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 1208 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that Helene - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1273 Views
Re Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1394 Views
I'm sure that Aeryn is lovely, but she's not the only lovely white woman in the world Helene - 24/03/2011 09:43:32 AM 1244 Views
Or nossy - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1249 Views
We have no control over how other people act. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1380 Views
I agree completely. nossy - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1343 Views
And it's a bit silly to determine for someone else who he should be dating *NM* Helene - 24/03/2011 09:33:09 AM 606 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Tom - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1279 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1347 Views
Who are you? Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1397 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. Vivien - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1290 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 677 Views
Thank you. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 664 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. Tom - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1315 Views
That's lawyer logic! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1241 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 647 Views
Ooh that's harsh. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:48:50 AM 1242 Views
This is all I get???? Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1297 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 621 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 533 Views
+1, though I probably wouldn't have said it in quite the same way. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:03:07 PM 1258 Views
Yup. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1340 Views
That's a good analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1369 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1256 Views
So it's not her choice who she wants to date, but everyone around her?? Helene - 24/03/2011 09:39:58 AM 1224 Views
What's wrong with wanting to preserve races or ethnic groups? ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:09:02 AM 1303 Views
When its the black race? *NM* Urza - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 652 Views
You're such an ass *NM* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 632 Views
*butts in* nossy - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1322 Views
"It would be wrong, immortal [sic] even". Tom - 24/03/2011 02:52:21 AM 1352 Views
Or potentially not (directly) from Africa nossy - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 1178 Views
I've only seen "identifies as" when someone is of mixed race. *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 03:09:51 AM 610 Views
You're absolutely right. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1290 Views
Then your argument is even sillier, as mixed race is too white Helene - 24/03/2011 09:50:15 AM 1154 Views
Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? Tom - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 1138 Views
Re: *butts in* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 03:03:14 AM 1173 Views
You're a damn genius! nossy - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1275 Views
I don't feel like one ßelals Girl - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1234 Views
Re: This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:07:36 AM 1303 Views
That could be argued in the opposite way just as easily. Helene - 24/03/2011 09:48:16 AM 1217 Views
Huh Aeryn - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1242 Views
Are you looking for reasons not to date him, or are you just being overly socially conscience? Beqi - 23/03/2011 08:12:48 PM 1247 Views
Ha. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1258 Views
Heh, that really is the best thing *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:48:07 AM 655 Views
...wat. Is this a serious post? Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:23:04 PM 1262 Views
Kinda? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1312 Views
I just broke up with my Pakistani girlfriend Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:24:52 PM 1232 Views
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Ha, I didn't even see that typo. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:14:40 AM 1150 Views
<3 You Ana, BUT Urza - 23/03/2011 08:44:11 PM 1244 Views
wait. did you..? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM 1250 Views
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I thought this was a great post. Legolas - 23/03/2011 10:26:08 PM 1311 Views
Glad I could entertain. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 588 Views
I understand what you are saying. Tashmere - 23/03/2011 11:04:44 PM 1248 Views
An ally! Score! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 1207 Views
Aw, you're a darling. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:26:39 AM 1250 Views
Also somebody brought up the valid point of his rights. Tashmere - 26/03/2011 11:55:49 PM 1256 Views
There's not a wealth of eligible men from any race; maybe you should just stop dating entirely. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:27:40 PM 1185 Views
Well, yeah. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:49:47 AM 1110 Views
The critically large word is "if"; your reasoning is setting off massive circular claxons for me. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:30:15 PM 1054 Views
he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 709 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* Urza - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 622 Views
"Efficient allocation of cock?" Oh my, that sounds really wrong. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:32:23 AM 626 Views
seriously? that is dumb. date the man. also, it is dehumanising to refer to him as a resource. temeraire - 24/03/2011 12:52:38 AM 1303 Views
This is exactly it. Dan - 24/03/2011 04:02:10 AM 1301 Views
I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 611 Views
<--Black Guy Post Daiyon - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1394 Views
Re: Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:53:07 AM 1293 Views
Um. rebelaessedai - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1415 Views
Well, according to stand-up comics who specialize in racially based humor... TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 01:29:35 AM 1304 Views
Practical advice. I like it. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1314 Views
Practical advice! *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 611 Views
... how did you? *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:31:14 AM 684 Views
I don't know! Our posts are about 1/10 of a second apart, freaky. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:35:23 AM 617 Views
1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 644 Views
But that means if he's OK with it he's a commodity more rare and valuable than gold. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:37:48 PM 1164 Views
I present to you: A VISION OF THE FUTURE-UTRE-UTRE-UTRE beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 02:19:19 AM 1368 Views
Oh, that was awesome *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:37:01 AM 655 Views
+ 10 best post ever. I can't believe how funny that was. *NM* Timthetrolloc - 24/03/2011 03:54:39 AM 662 Views
What just happened? *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 614 Views
*NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 08:32:36 AM 545 Views
Awesome *NM* Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 721 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... MightyYT - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1249 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 642 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* MightyYT - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 664 Views
Don't date him. Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1246 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1454 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women Helene - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1315 Views
It is. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 597 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about random thoughts - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1313 Views
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