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Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel Send a noteboard - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM
particularly when people are accused of being so pathetic they'll make up SOs just to prove a point or make themselves look better to said community. I like you, Aisha, but having been on the other end of it I still think suggestions like that say a lot more about the person (or people, as the case may be) making them than about the person accused. :[
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Interracial dating (in the dating dilemma series) Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:11:14 AM 2194 Views
I am not a black woman and I haven't done it ironclad - 23/03/2011 11:24:16 AM 1152 Views
Re: Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:38:31 AM 1187 Views
Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 576 Views
john lennon... MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:08:20 PM 1189 Views
If you limit your dating pool by race you really have no reason to complain Camilla - 23/03/2011 11:57:48 AM 1106 Views
I dated a black girl for nearly 3 years. Dragonsoul - 23/03/2011 12:29:26 PM 1219 Views
ironclad - 23/03/2011 12:57:08 PM 1222 Views
LMAO Jens, you know me too well Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:30:35 PM 1109 Views
And her mother is Muslim. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1133 Views
What's it called? *NM* Legolas - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 585 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* Aisha - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 588 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1109 Views
Hm, okay. Legolas - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1251 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. Dragonsoul - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1186 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1232 Views
I'd prove it to you. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1100 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1091 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity Aisha - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1207 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1307 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone random thoughts - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1215 Views
Can you edit your post and take out the cow analogies? Thanks. *NM* Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:31:51 PM 587 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1077 Views
being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1083 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates Helene - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 1064 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience random thoughts - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 1072 Views
I don't date either... :-) Helene - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1293 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. nossy - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1185 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... Sareitha Sedai - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1104 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship Helene - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1126 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post Helene - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1085 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1136 Views
If you have a lot in common with him and like him and are attracted to him Helene - 24/03/2011 09:41:01 AM 1027 Views
I think you should date him. Palatine - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 1043 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. Morgawse - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 1079 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. Jeordam - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1122 Views
I agree with you. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1121 Views
And my opinion matters more than everyone else here combined! MWAHAHAHAHAHA Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:28:06 PM 1070 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... ironclad - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1094 Views
Because you never know. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1252 Views
Geez you know just the right things to say. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:38:34 AM 1110 Views
LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 568 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 1050 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that Helene - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1103 Views
Re Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1219 Views
I'm sure that Aeryn is lovely, but she's not the only lovely white woman in the world Helene - 24/03/2011 09:43:32 AM 1093 Views
Or nossy - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1081 Views
We have no control over how other people act. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1211 Views
I agree completely. nossy - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1171 Views
And it's a bit silly to determine for someone else who he should be dating *NM* Helene - 24/03/2011 09:33:09 AM 540 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Tom - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1107 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1203 Views
Who are you? Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1241 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. Vivien - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1118 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 577 Views
Thank you. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 581 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. Tom - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1155 Views
That's lawyer logic! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1087 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 580 Views
Ooh that's harsh. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:48:50 AM 1045 Views
This is all I get???? Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1153 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 549 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 452 Views
+1, though I probably wouldn't have said it in quite the same way. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:03:07 PM 1088 Views
Yup. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1176 Views
That's a good analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1185 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1086 Views
So it's not her choice who she wants to date, but everyone around her?? Helene - 24/03/2011 09:39:58 AM 1095 Views
What's wrong with wanting to preserve races or ethnic groups? ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:09:02 AM 1147 Views
When its the black race? *NM* Urza - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 578 Views
You're such an ass *NM* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 559 Views
*butts in* nossy - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1146 Views
"It would be wrong, immortal [sic] even". Tom - 24/03/2011 02:52:21 AM 1187 Views
Or potentially not (directly) from Africa nossy - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 1024 Views
I've only seen "identifies as" when someone is of mixed race. *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 03:09:51 AM 538 Views
You're absolutely right. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1133 Views
Then your argument is even sillier, as mixed race is too white Helene - 24/03/2011 09:50:15 AM 1000 Views
Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? Tom - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 987 Views
Re: *butts in* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 03:03:14 AM 1027 Views
You're a damn genius! nossy - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1139 Views
I don't feel like one ßelals Girl - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1094 Views
Re: This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:07:36 AM 1140 Views
That could be argued in the opposite way just as easily. Helene - 24/03/2011 09:48:16 AM 1065 Views
Huh Aeryn - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1092 Views
Are you looking for reasons not to date him, or are you just being overly socially conscience? Beqi - 23/03/2011 08:12:48 PM 1090 Views
Ha. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1095 Views
Heh, that really is the best thing *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:48:07 AM 581 Views
...wat. Is this a serious post? Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:23:04 PM 1099 Views
Kinda? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1143 Views
I just broke up with my Pakistani girlfriend Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:24:52 PM 1054 Views
Heh heh heh heh snoopcester - 23/03/2011 08:25:06 PM 943 Views
Ha, I didn't even see that typo. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:14:40 AM 976 Views
<3 You Ana, BUT Urza - 23/03/2011 08:44:11 PM 1083 Views
wait. did you..? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM 1106 Views
Your taken aback by this why? Urza - 24/03/2011 06:30:46 AM 1158 Views
I thought this was a great post. Legolas - 23/03/2011 10:26:08 PM 1139 Views
Glad I could entertain. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 519 Views
I understand what you are saying. Tashmere - 23/03/2011 11:04:44 PM 1084 Views
An ally! Score! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 1047 Views
Aw, you're a darling. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:26:39 AM 1114 Views
Also somebody brought up the valid point of his rights. Tashmere - 26/03/2011 11:55:49 PM 1100 Views
There's not a wealth of eligible men from any race; maybe you should just stop dating entirely. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:27:40 PM 1039 Views
Well, yeah. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:49:47 AM 953 Views
The critically large word is "if"; your reasoning is setting off massive circular claxons for me. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:30:15 PM 899 Views
he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 636 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* Urza - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 545 Views
"Efficient allocation of cock?" Oh my, that sounds really wrong. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:32:23 AM 566 Views
seriously? that is dumb. date the man. also, it is dehumanising to refer to him as a resource. temeraire - 24/03/2011 12:52:38 AM 1138 Views
This is exactly it. Dan - 24/03/2011 04:02:10 AM 1140 Views
I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 550 Views
<--Black Guy Post Daiyon - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1229 Views
Re: Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:53:07 AM 1131 Views
Um. rebelaessedai - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1245 Views
Well, according to stand-up comics who specialize in racially based humor... TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 01:29:35 AM 1131 Views
Practical advice. I like it. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1154 Views
Practical advice! *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 541 Views
... how did you? *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:31:14 AM 591 Views
I don't know! Our posts are about 1/10 of a second apart, freaky. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:35:23 AM 545 Views
1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 559 Views
But that means if he's OK with it he's a commodity more rare and valuable than gold. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:37:48 PM 1032 Views
I present to you: A VISION OF THE FUTURE-UTRE-UTRE-UTRE beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 02:19:19 AM 1230 Views
Oh, that was awesome *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:37:01 AM 585 Views
+ 10 best post ever. I can't believe how funny that was. *NM* Timthetrolloc - 24/03/2011 03:54:39 AM 605 Views
What just happened? *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 536 Views
*NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 08:32:36 AM 470 Views
Awesome *NM* Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 646 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... MightyYT - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1093 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 568 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* MightyYT - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 587 Views
Don't date him. Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1094 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1213 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women Helene - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1173 Views
It is. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 532 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about random thoughts - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1124 Views
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