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Could go either way. Dannymac Send a noteboard - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM
Not enough info here to see if this is a place where they have formed to fit each other, or if she just gave up on this particular fight. Depends on what else there is... is she always giving up what she wants for his comfort? Or is there a give and take, and this is one issue where she formed to fit him, instead of vice versa?

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Relationship - positive development or signs of eventual break down? Helene - 19/04/2011 08:48:26 AM 2246 Views
Helene, I want to give you an answer but... Urza - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 1352 Views
Fair enough Helene - 19/04/2011 10:01:51 AM 1310 Views
Not all inlaws are bad, you know, I prefer some of my inlaws to my own family. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:56:03 PM 681 Views
inlaws are not always bad random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:10:18 PM 1288 Views
I spend way more time with my in-laws than with my own family. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:17:41 PM 1261 Views
I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* Clover - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 652 Views
I think they are right ironclad - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1479 Views
I see your point Helene - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 1455 Views
Re: I think they are right Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:59:57 PM 1348 Views
I think that's an unfair assumption. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 1248 Views
What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1400 Views
Ew. I would have a problem with that too. Something about that attitude makes me dig in my heels. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:37:38 AM 1151 Views
No offense... ironclad - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 1392 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 1323 Views
For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 679 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 676 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 1254 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 640 Views
Yes. But it didn't start out like that. Took years to chip away all our rough edges. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:40:29 AM 1349 Views
Could be either snoopcester - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 1379 Views
True enough... Helene - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 1342 Views
My opinion is the latter. Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 1353 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 1346 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Macharius - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 1295 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1429 Views
I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 1351 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 1340 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 653 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 641 Views
I translated "I will think about it" as a secret but obvious code for. "I don't really want to but Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:34:36 AM 1437 Views
that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 626 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1455 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have Helene - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 1263 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 1329 Views
How did things change? Helene - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 1348 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 1333 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us Helene - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 1322 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 1449 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 1366 Views
I know. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1557 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. random thoughts - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1788 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 661 Views
Re: The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot Tihs Tnuc - 19/04/2011 04:34:34 PM 1228 Views
From the information that you have presented... Jeordam - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1480 Views
I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 1272 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 1326 Views
Oh yes... I'm of course not sure. I can be way off base :-) Let's hope I am. Helene - 19/04/2011 06:55:13 PM 1314 Views
Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 1280 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 1295 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 1257 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife Helene - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 1198 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. Clover - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 1270 Views
I think you are 100% right about having a good realtionship with your spouse's family random thoughts - 19/04/2011 05:07:12 PM 1293 Views
I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1451 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. Clover - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 1266 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 1214 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 1338 Views
rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:29:32 AM 1527 Views
Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. Palatine - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 1335 Views
I think it's impossible for me to judge their future status without knowing more about them LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 07:22:32 PM 1300 Views
Can't tell. nossy - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 1269 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. Antigone - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1689 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 1272 Views
What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM 1290 Views
It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 1257 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 1259 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 624 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 1327 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 698 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 1397 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 609 Views
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