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Could go either way. Dannymac Send a noteboard - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM
Not enough info here to see if this is a place where they have formed to fit each other, or if she just gave up on this particular fight. Depends on what else there is... is she always giving up what she wants for his comfort? Or is there a give and take, and this is one issue where she formed to fit him, instead of vice versa?

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Relationship - positive development or signs of eventual break down? Helene - 19/04/2011 08:48:26 AM 2302 Views
Helene, I want to give you an answer but... Urza - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 1414 Views
Fair enough Helene - 19/04/2011 10:01:51 AM 1369 Views
Not all inlaws are bad, you know, I prefer some of my inlaws to my own family. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:56:03 PM 712 Views
inlaws are not always bad random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:10:18 PM 1347 Views
I spend way more time with my in-laws than with my own family. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:17:41 PM 1318 Views
I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* Clover - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 681 Views
I think they are right ironclad - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1539 Views
I see your point Helene - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 1517 Views
Re: I think they are right Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:59:57 PM 1432 Views
I think that's an unfair assumption. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 1307 Views
What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1458 Views
Ew. I would have a problem with that too. Something about that attitude makes me dig in my heels. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:37:38 AM 1217 Views
No offense... ironclad - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 1450 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 1384 Views
For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 707 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 704 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 1306 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 667 Views
Yes. But it didn't start out like that. Took years to chip away all our rough edges. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:40:29 AM 1403 Views
Could be either snoopcester - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 1442 Views
True enough... Helene - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 1399 Views
My opinion is the latter. Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 1419 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 1416 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Macharius - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 1358 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1490 Views
I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 1414 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 1418 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 683 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 676 Views
I translated "I will think about it" as a secret but obvious code for. "I don't really want to but Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:34:36 AM 1501 Views
that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 654 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1513 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have Helene - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 1316 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 1396 Views
How did things change? Helene - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 1443 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 1400 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us Helene - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 1392 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 1512 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 1426 Views
I know. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1648 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. random thoughts - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1842 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 693 Views
Re: The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot Tihs Tnuc - 19/04/2011 04:34:34 PM 1286 Views
From the information that you have presented... Jeordam - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1530 Views
I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 1331 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 1384 Views
Oh yes... I'm of course not sure. I can be way off base :-) Let's hope I am. Helene - 19/04/2011 06:55:13 PM 1370 Views
Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 1335 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 1363 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 1319 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife Helene - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 1250 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. Clover - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 1336 Views
I think you are 100% right about having a good realtionship with your spouse's family random thoughts - 19/04/2011 05:07:12 PM 1349 Views
I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1518 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. Clover - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 1323 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 1272 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 1398 Views
rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:29:32 AM 1590 Views
Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. Palatine - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 1387 Views
I think it's impossible for me to judge their future status without knowing more about them LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 07:22:32 PM 1357 Views
Can't tell. nossy - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 1332 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. Antigone - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1746 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 1325 Views
What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM 1351 Views
It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 1309 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 1322 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 650 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 1391 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 734 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 1455 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 637 Views
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