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rebelaessedai Send a noteboard - 22/04/2011 04:29:32 AM
I was referring to Ricecake Mike... our third partner. You'll meet him tomorrow. ;)

Your family has always bothered me. They seemed so strict and just outright mean to you. But they are your family, and the best you can do is just take the good they gave you and try to work on the bad. That's true even of me, I guess. My mom had lots of issues before she went on lamictal. She's still somewhat suicidal (although not as bad as before) and I can't get close to her the same way I can other people... even though I feel closer to her than I do most other people... This isn't making any sense. :confused: :P

Anyway, I'm always willing to talk. :)
Atheism is a religion like abstinence is a sex position. - Bill Maher
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What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1426 Views
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For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 690 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 688 Views
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I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 1383 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 1387 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 667 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 661 Views
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that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 637 Views
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I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 1298 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 1350 Views
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Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 1307 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 1325 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 1283 Views
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I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1480 Views
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Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 1245 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 1368 Views
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It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 1283 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 1288 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 638 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 1357 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 716 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 1424 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 621 Views
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