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*sigh* Yunalesca Send a noteboard - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM
it was this sort of thing that made me break it off with the kiwi. guess it really depends on the people tho, hopefully the people in your post are less mad than i am.
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Relationship - positive development or signs of eventual break down? Helene - 19/04/2011 08:48:26 AM 1727 Views
Helene, I want to give you an answer but... Urza - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 898 Views
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Not all inlaws are bad, you know, I prefer some of my inlaws to my own family. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:56:03 PM 410 Views
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I spend way more time with my in-laws than with my own family. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:17:41 PM 798 Views
I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* Clover - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 395 Views
I think they are right ironclad - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1014 Views
I see your point Helene - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 967 Views
Re: I think they are right Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:59:57 PM 856 Views
I think that's an unfair assumption. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 786 Views
What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 947 Views
Ew. I would have a problem with that too. Something about that attitude makes me dig in my heels. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:37:38 AM 693 Views
No offense... ironclad - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 942 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 848 Views
For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 416 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 404 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 800 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 396 Views
Yes. But it didn't start out like that. Took years to chip away all our rough edges. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:40:29 AM 887 Views
Could be either snoopcester - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 896 Views
True enough... Helene - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 885 Views
My opinion is the latter. Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 886 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 844 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Macharius - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 819 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 968 Views
I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 901 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 859 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 400 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 370 Views
I translated "I will think about it" as a secret but obvious code for. "I don't really want to but Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:34:36 AM 983 Views
that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 375 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 964 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have Helene - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 816 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 847 Views
How did things change? Helene - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 870 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 861 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us Helene - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 792 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 895 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 834 Views
I know. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1067 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. random thoughts - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1313 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 380 Views
Re: The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot Tihs Tnuc - 19/04/2011 04:34:34 PM 769 Views
From the information that you have presented... Jeordam - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 990 Views
I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 797 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 871 Views
Oh yes... I'm of course not sure. I can be way off base :-) Let's hope I am. Helene - 19/04/2011 06:55:13 PM 841 Views
Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 816 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 800 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 758 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife Helene - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 738 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. Clover - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 798 Views
I think you are 100% right about having a good realtionship with your spouse's family random thoughts - 19/04/2011 05:07:12 PM 811 Views
I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 943 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. Clover - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 802 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 701 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 869 Views
rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:29:32 AM 1090 Views
Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. Palatine - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 842 Views
I think it's impossible for me to judge their future status without knowing more about them LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 07:22:32 PM 825 Views
Can't tell. nossy - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 765 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. Antigone - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1072 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 782 Views
What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM 798 Views
It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 797 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 800 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 360 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 844 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 412 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 918 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 354 Views
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