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*sigh* Yunalesca Send a noteboard - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM
it was this sort of thing that made me break it off with the kiwi. guess it really depends on the people tho, hopefully the people in your post are less mad than i am.
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Relationship - positive development or signs of eventual break down? Helene - 19/04/2011 08:48:26 AM 2245 Views
Helene, I want to give you an answer but... Urza - 19/04/2011 08:58:45 AM 1351 Views
Fair enough Helene - 19/04/2011 10:01:51 AM 1309 Views
Not all inlaws are bad, you know, I prefer some of my inlaws to my own family. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:56:03 PM 680 Views
inlaws are not always bad random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:10:18 PM 1287 Views
I spend way more time with my in-laws than with my own family. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:17:41 PM 1260 Views
I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* Clover - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 651 Views
I think they are right ironclad - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1478 Views
I see your point Helene - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 1454 Views
Re: I think they are right Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:59:57 PM 1347 Views
I think that's an unfair assumption. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 1247 Views
What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1399 Views
Ew. I would have a problem with that too. Something about that attitude makes me dig in my heels. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:37:38 AM 1150 Views
No offense... ironclad - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 1391 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 1322 Views
For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 678 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 675 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 1253 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 639 Views
Yes. But it didn't start out like that. Took years to chip away all our rough edges. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:40:29 AM 1348 Views
Could be either snoopcester - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 1378 Views
True enough... Helene - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 1341 Views
My opinion is the latter. Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 1352 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 1345 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Macharius - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 1293 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1428 Views
I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 1350 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 1339 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 652 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 640 Views
I translated "I will think about it" as a secret but obvious code for. "I don't really want to but Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:34:36 AM 1436 Views
that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 625 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1454 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have Helene - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 1262 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 1328 Views
How did things change? Helene - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 1347 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 1332 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us Helene - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 1321 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 1448 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 1366 Views
I know. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1556 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. random thoughts - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1787 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 660 Views
Re: The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot Tihs Tnuc - 19/04/2011 04:34:34 PM 1226 Views
From the information that you have presented... Jeordam - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1480 Views
I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 1271 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 1325 Views
Oh yes... I'm of course not sure. I can be way off base :-) Let's hope I am. Helene - 19/04/2011 06:55:13 PM 1313 Views
Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 1278 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 1294 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 1256 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife Helene - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 1197 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. Clover - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 1270 Views
I think you are 100% right about having a good realtionship with your spouse's family random thoughts - 19/04/2011 05:07:12 PM 1292 Views
I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1449 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. Clover - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 1265 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 1213 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 1337 Views
rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:29:32 AM 1526 Views
Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. Palatine - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 1334 Views
I think it's impossible for me to judge their future status without knowing more about them LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 07:22:32 PM 1299 Views
Can't tell. nossy - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 1268 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. Antigone - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1688 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 1271 Views
What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM 1289 Views
It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 1256 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 1258 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 623 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 1326 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 697 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 1397 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 608 Views
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