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That was kind of my take. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM
If you're in an open relationship, that's one thing. It's not for me, but I'm certainly not going to judge you for it.

But if you're going around behind your significant other's back and violating a promise you've made? Oh, yeah. I'mma judge you hard. I've seen way too many cheaters ruin people's lives to do otherwise.

I could not help wondering if his reaction to the reaction (re-reaction?) had something to do with how many polyamorous members wotmania had, but I am not aware of any of them being deceitful about it. All those I know are very up front with their partner(s;) they know they must be, or it cannot work, and care enough about their partner(s) not to put them through that kind of betrayal.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1841 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1100 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 986 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 963 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1030 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 989 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1036 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1015 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1199 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1099 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1022 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1030 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1051 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1220 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 972 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 543 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1077 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 504 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 935 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 650 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 520 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 954 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 531 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1059 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 921 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 490 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 957 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 504 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 974 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 961 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1053 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1172 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 931 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1124 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 972 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 509 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1186 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1059 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1237 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 954 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 986 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1023 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1114 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1130 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1027 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 995 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1032 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 521 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 572 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 996 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 883 Views
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