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You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM
I said the answer on this is one only you can find. Someone might be able to say "Yes, I was the same, now me and my wife have biweekly ménage à trois' with a Thai ladyboy" and it will click in your head "YES! Transexual Southeast Asian prostitutes, that's what's missing from this relationship!" but that is just taking pot shots in the dark and hoping you strike lucky, in the end you're going to have to find the answer within yourself.

You say nothing is missing, but unless you have an addiction (in which case seek professional help) something clearly isn't right.


Something is only missing if you think flirting with other people is morally wrong. If a man flirts, feels satisfied in only doing that, never once cheats, is that morally reprehensible? I think a little flirting is not wrong. That's what I striving for. Right now, I'm full out trying to seduce women, but I want to make it to where it's just harmless flirting, because I know I will never kcik the habit all the way. It's just my personality. I'm looking for some advice as to how to mentally get myself to a position where the urge to continue the flirtation is stopped.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 1675 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 933 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 803 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 791 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 859 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 813 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 854 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 825 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1014 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 928 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 860 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 849 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 869 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1041 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 805 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 455 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 872 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 411 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 764 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 558 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 433 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 802 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 450 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 867 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 764 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 409 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 784 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 413 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 801 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 803 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 871 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1009 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 765 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 951 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 803 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 426 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1018 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 895 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1064 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 785 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 821 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 847 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 939 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 947 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 858 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 830 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 857 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 432 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 482 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 829 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 708 Views
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