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That was kind of my take. Joel Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM
If you're in an open relationship, that's one thing. It's not for me, but I'm certainly not going to judge you for it.

But if you're going around behind your significant other's back and violating a promise you've made? Oh, yeah. I'mma judge you hard. I've seen way too many cheaters ruin people's lives to do otherwise.

I could not help wondering if his reaction to the reaction (re-reaction?) had something to do with how many polyamorous members wotmania had, but I am not aware of any of them being deceitful about it. All those I know are very up front with their partner(s;) they know they must be, or it cannot work, and care enough about their partner(s) not to put them through that kind of betrayal.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2223 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1472 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1357 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1356 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1412 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1370 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1395 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1375 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1594 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1461 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1411 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1434 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1463 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1618 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1349 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 810 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1439 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 727 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1273 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 901 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 727 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1310 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 760 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1411 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1272 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 693 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1372 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 725 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1366 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1378 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1422 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1540 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1277 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1480 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1339 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 734 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1535 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1415 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1634 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1351 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1340 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1399 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1491 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1502 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1414 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1318 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1399 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 721 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 807 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1375 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1285 Views
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