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Perhaps the bit where the police may have informed the military out of spite. Beqi Send a noteboard - 15/03/2010 06:30:06 PM
I don't think they HAD to inform them. But if she was trying to hide her marriage, framing the certificate was probably not the best thing to do. A guy on my husband's boat had similar troubles when he married a foreign national without permission. Perhaps I'm dealing from a place of extreme security with my husband's job.
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Lesbian sgt. discharged after police tell military everynametaken - 13/03/2010 10:43:06 PM 1109 Views
The military is entitled to know about all legal proceedings on its personnel, and the details Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:08:18 PM 589 Views
Re: The military is entitled to know about all legal proceedings on its personnel, and the details everynametaken - 13/03/2010 11:37:30 PM 612 Views
well she did have a third option LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 12:05:06 AM 587 Views
Her marriage was an important detail Isaac - 14/03/2010 12:38:29 AM 580 Views
Re: Her marriage was an important detail everynametaken - 14/03/2010 06:38:05 PM 594 Views
you're assuming the military are treated like actual citizens. LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 06:50:14 PM 559 Views
Basically. *NM* Brian - 14/03/2010 06:54:14 PM 301 Views
really? I was really hoping someone would point out how wrong I was. *NM* LadyLorraine - 14/03/2010 07:01:45 PM 317 Views
It's not as bad as it sounds *NM* Isaac - 14/03/2010 11:13:05 PM 286 Views
Agreed. It's restrictive at times, but usually fair. *NM* Brian - 15/03/2010 12:30:13 AM 283 Views
Yep, definitely harsh, but also fair *NM* Isaac - 15/03/2010 12:54:34 AM 278 Views
Define fair Roland00 - 15/03/2010 03:08:42 AM 557 Views
actually, I think it is as bad as it sounds. LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 02:14:21 AM 507 Views
Because if you treated soldiers like civilians, they wouldn't be very effective. *NM* beckstcw - 15/03/2010 02:49:19 AM 283 Views
*shrug* I don't believe it has to be that way. LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 03:40:08 AM 508 Views
Cannoli - 15/03/2010 10:28:32 PM 752 Views
Matter of perspective Isaac - 15/03/2010 03:13:21 AM 560 Views
*snort* there's "Rules" like any job has LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 03:34:51 AM 553 Views
Re: *snort* there's "Rules" like any job has Isaac - 15/03/2010 04:02:46 AM 575 Views
if someone is going to sign away their life and limb. LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 04:05:36 AM 653 Views
Re: if someone is going to sign away their life and limb. Isaac - 15/03/2010 04:48:03 AM 548 Views
very* LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 04:51:07 AM 629 Views
Re: very* Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:02:28 AM 533 Views
You can get out of the military anytime in the first six months or so without any consequences. *NM* Beqi - 15/03/2010 05:25:43 AM 360 Views
I'm less concerned about "Getting out" LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 12:31:49 PM 603 Views
Actually, in the contract when you first sign up... MightyYT - 15/03/2010 05:55:48 PM 729 Views
as long as it's in the contract...and not glossed over. LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 06:00:38 PM 536 Views
The military is different Brian - 14/03/2010 06:53:28 PM 680 Views
Re: The military is different everynametaken - 15/03/2010 12:34:47 AM 537 Views
You obviously don't get it. There is no right to privacy as a member of the military. Period. Brian - 15/03/2010 12:43:58 AM 521 Views
You two are arguing past each other Roland00 - 15/03/2010 03:14:28 AM 508 Views
My point remains the same.... Brian - 15/03/2010 06:27:32 AM 543 Views
You obviously don't get it. The police ARE bound to treat everyone fairly and ethically regardless. everynametaken - 15/03/2010 03:54:27 AM 568 Views
No no no, I think you're missing a big point beckstcw - 15/03/2010 02:50:33 AM 532 Views
Actually, I believe she also violated federal law too Isaac - 15/03/2010 03:38:26 AM 683 Views
Re: Actually, I believe she also violated federal law too everynametaken - 15/03/2010 04:01:29 AM 562 Views
Jurisdiction Roland00 - 15/03/2010 04:21:08 AM 599 Views
Aren't they already pursuing across state lines though? Isaac - 15/03/2010 04:46:34 AM 551 Views
and you are still missing my main point. everynametaken - 15/03/2010 03:49:26 AM 557 Views
I don't care about DADT, and I never mentioned it Brian - 15/03/2010 07:15:27 AM 565 Views
You're forbidden from marrying your own gender in the first place. She knew that. beckstcw - 14/03/2010 06:05:37 AM 533 Views
Wow...how completely wrong you are. MightyYT - 15/03/2010 05:42:32 PM 509 Views
You want to cite when that was changed? Isaac - 15/03/2010 06:27:47 PM 563 Views
Marriage Question Bored - 15/03/2010 07:26:34 PM 485 Views
Re: Marriage Question Isaac - 15/03/2010 07:54:24 PM 531 Views
I can't tell you when it was changed specifically... Brian - 15/03/2010 09:09:46 PM 498 Views
Re: I can't tell you when it was changed specifically... Isaac - 15/03/2010 09:15:41 PM 524 Views
wait, why does this military have that right? LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 10:03:14 PM 506 Views
Why does or why should? *NM* Isaac - 15/03/2010 10:22:11 PM 288 Views
both, really. *NM* LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 10:28:36 PM 272 Views
Basically what snoop said *NM* Isaac - 15/03/2010 11:07:17 PM 258 Views
Not sure of the US's reasoning, though I would assume it is as in other countries, snoopcester - 15/03/2010 10:31:38 PM 498 Views
Can't cite you regs, don't know them and I have been out for a number of years now. MightyYT - 16/03/2010 12:17:58 AM 477 Views
Re: Can't cite you regs, don't know them and I have been out for a number of years now. Isaac - 16/03/2010 12:33:33 AM 510 Views
Somebody brought up a valid point, though... Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:01:18 AM 615 Views
Re: Somebody brought up a valid point, though... Isaac - 16/03/2010 01:22:36 AM 663 Views
Does that mean you're backtracking on a number of your earlier statements? Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:35:49 AM 726 Views
Not really Isaac - 16/03/2010 02:07:36 AM 566 Views
Looks like you're missing one of my points too, then. Legolas - 16/03/2010 02:40:50 AM 857 Views
Re: Looks like you're missing one of my points too, then. Isaac - 16/03/2010 02:57:03 AM 550 Views
Actually she did NOT follow the rules beckstcw - 14/03/2010 06:04:32 AM 597 Views
Bottom line: The law is stupid. globug0822 - 15/03/2010 04:20:23 AM 536 Views
A spouse's criminal record can effect a soldier's clearance. Beqi - 15/03/2010 05:30:09 AM 649 Views
none? LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 12:36:36 PM 563 Views
Perhaps the bit where the police may have informed the military out of spite. Beqi - 15/03/2010 06:30:06 PM 597 Views
see and here's my thing LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 10:04:43 PM 686 Views
Re: see and here's my thing Isaac - 15/03/2010 10:45:10 PM 620 Views
i guess that's just me then I tend to tuck important documents into single locations LadyLorraine - 15/03/2010 10:47:12 PM 594 Views
Re: i guess that's just me then I tend to tuck important documents into single locations Isaac - 15/03/2010 11:05:59 PM 634 Views
Until yesterday Beqi - 15/03/2010 11:34:09 PM 499 Views
Re: Until yesterday Isaac - 15/03/2010 11:42:37 PM 534 Views
Don't ask, don't tell is stupid and outdated in a modern country. snoopcester - 15/03/2010 11:02:33 AM 548 Views
Exactly Brian - 15/03/2010 09:04:44 PM 495 Views
Re: Exactly Isaac - 15/03/2010 10:11:14 PM 598 Views
Yeah, snoopcester - 15/03/2010 10:43:10 PM 553 Views
Aww. Is the homo crowd upset that their marital status is being treated EXACTLY like everyone else? Cannoli - 15/03/2010 10:25:42 PM 548 Views
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