But with regard to "altering your body because something is wrong with your brain," that's literally what medication does.
I don't think that you should equate medication and a sex change operation. The two are dramatically different in purpose and intent.
When it comes to medication (for a physical issue), the intent and purpose of the drug is to bring functionality to something that is in error. Insulin because the body cannot produce it being an example. The medication is also there to remove the pain of something that is wrong (while the body self-heals, is operated on, etc.)
Medication is also used for mental health disorders...to help the individual get back to a functional and normal place. To lesson anxiety over a perceived issue being an example. It is to help them be normal...that what their mind sees/feels is not real, but instead is a symptom of their disease.
In all those instances, the medication is to bring them back to normal functionality. On the other hand, the intent of the sex change operation is to help them create an illusion and not face reality. You've mentioned multiple times how that's the current agreed upon process to follow. 75 years ago, people were lobotomized for far less....and it was also the current agreed upon process to follow. You've mentioned that the suicide rate is noticeably higher in the trans community.
Why? Why would this one aspect of mental health have a higher percentage of suicide? And then if the transition operation was the actual "cure", wouldn't the suicide rate drop back down to standard norms? Or maybe, just maybe, we are addressing a symptom and not the underlining issue. Keep in mind that we don't "play along" with Alzheimer's sufferer's delusions. You very specifically don't...because that further detaches them from reality. Instead, you lovingly, but persistently, bring them back to reality. You remind them of who you are, instead of playing along with their delusion. Instead, wouldn't it be the proper course of action to lovingly, but persistently, help a trans individual to realize who they are? That no mater how much they "feel" like a woman, they are a man. That no mater how much they "feel" like a man, they are a woman.
Not everything in our identity is an aspect that can be chosen. Some things you have to be at peace with....whether you like it or not.
~Jeordam
Saving the Princess, Humanity, or the World-Entire since 1985