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Re: Aeryn Send a noteboard - 23/03/2011 11:38:31 AM
But I don't see how any of that even plays a role when it comes to dating. I can't believe you even think about stuff like that. If it feels right on an emotional level, do it. If it doesn't, don't. This isn't about demography, statistics or resources, for crying out loud.
"All you need is love". John Lennon, smart man, shot in the back, very sad.


Of course it plays a role. Culture is very important to some people. If your eligible dating pool was limited, then you would certainly care. And at this point, I have zero vested interest, so this is the time to think rationally.
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Interracial dating (in the dating dilemma series) Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:11:14 AM 2459 Views
I am not a black woman and I haven't done it ironclad - 23/03/2011 11:24:16 AM 1412 Views
Re: Aeryn - 23/03/2011 11:38:31 AM 1404 Views
Independence Day reference? Good man. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:28:35 PM 674 Views
john lennon... MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:08:20 PM 1465 Views
If you limit your dating pool by race you really have no reason to complain Camilla - 23/03/2011 11:57:48 AM 1342 Views
I dated a black girl for nearly 3 years. Dragonsoul - 23/03/2011 12:29:26 PM 1441 Views
ironclad - 23/03/2011 12:57:08 PM 1422 Views
LMAO Jens, you know me too well Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:30:35 PM 1311 Views
And her mother is Muslim. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:48:24 AM 1349 Views
What's it called? *NM* Legolas - 24/03/2011 10:36:28 PM 687 Views
please give him a moment to google an answer. *NM* Aisha - 25/03/2011 11:04:02 AM 691 Views
She said it's called Abu Haifa (sp?) Dragonsoul - 25/03/2011 10:38:13 PM 1310 Views
Hm, okay. Legolas - 26/03/2011 12:16:02 AM 1465 Views
That was it, Abu Hanifa. I'm poor with Arabic. Dragonsoul - 26/03/2011 01:08:12 AM 1419 Views
amazingly enough, I dont believe you. Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:32:26 PM 1450 Views
I'd prove it to you. Dragonsoul - 24/03/2011 11:47:33 AM 1337 Views
God help me, I'm agreeing with Dragonsoul. Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:29:56 PM 1287 Views
I think he is making it up for the benefit of this comunity Aisha - 24/03/2011 10:03:21 PM 1426 Views
Sometimes I worry about "this community"... Joel - 25/03/2011 11:33:17 PM 1532 Views
I think that would be a poor reason to not date someone random thoughts - 23/03/2011 01:07:31 PM 1424 Views
Can you edit your post and take out the cow analogies? Thanks. *NM* Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:31:51 PM 687 Views
I didn't even see the "cow & milk" analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:03:02 AM 1302 Views
being offensive makes it no less true random thoughts - 24/03/2011 01:25:34 PM 1311 Views
It's true that after a certain age, average men have an easier time finding dates Helene - 24/03/2011 01:31:35 PM 1294 Views
I don't date so I don't have personal experience random thoughts - 24/03/2011 03:29:50 PM 1296 Views
I don't date either... :-) Helene - 24/03/2011 03:42:33 PM 1509 Views
I think you're doing him a disservice. nossy - 23/03/2011 02:16:59 PM 1400 Views
This. Plus, to try to frame it more in A's terms... Sareitha Sedai - 23/03/2011 03:05:55 PM 1339 Views
It can add extra complications that negatively impact the likelihood of a successful relationship Helene - 23/03/2011 02:50:39 PM 1328 Views
What I forgot to mention in the post Helene - 23/03/2011 03:01:04 PM 1298 Views
Re: What I forgot to mention in the post Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:11:11 AM 1351 Views
If you have a lot in common with him and like him and are attracted to him Helene - 24/03/2011 09:41:01 AM 1243 Views
I think you should date him. Palatine - 23/03/2011 03:02:56 PM 1240 Views
I think you should date this guy if you like him. Morgawse - 23/03/2011 03:07:30 PM 1293 Views
I think that you're doing both of you a disservice. Jeordam - 23/03/2011 03:09:29 PM 1341 Views
I agree with you. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:26:02 PM 1329 Views
And my opinion matters more than everyone else here combined! MWAHAHAHAHAHA Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:28:06 PM 1286 Views
Well, you know your sis better than we do... ironclad - 23/03/2011 03:48:12 PM 1296 Views
Because you never know. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:00:44 PM 1483 Views
Geez you know just the right things to say. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:38:34 AM 1319 Views
LOL. ( Yes I really did laugh out loud) *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:55:22 AM 663 Views
Most of the other responses are ignoring your reasons. Vivien - 23/03/2011 03:34:56 PM 1264 Views
No one should try to think from "the perspective of black women", not even 1 black woman can do that Helene - 23/03/2011 03:47:34 PM 1322 Views
Re Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:05:20 PM 1466 Views
I'm sure that Aeryn is lovely, but she's not the only lovely white woman in the world Helene - 24/03/2011 09:43:32 AM 1302 Views
Or nossy - 23/03/2011 03:47:56 PM 1300 Views
We have no control over how other people act. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:07:11 PM 1436 Views
I agree completely. nossy - 23/03/2011 04:17:59 PM 1398 Views
And it's a bit silly to determine for someone else who he should be dating *NM* Helene - 24/03/2011 09:33:09 AM 633 Views
This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Tom - 23/03/2011 03:54:15 PM 1331 Views
Your opinion: less than nothing. Vivien - 23/03/2011 04:10:24 PM 1401 Views
Who are you? Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:37:43 PM 1452 Views
It's extremely unlikely that Tom was offended. Vivien - 23/03/2011 09:04:42 PM 1350 Views
I'm glad you're back, by the way. These threads are great. *NM* Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 09:15:41 PM 701 Views
Thank you. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:01:08 AM 692 Views
I'm not offended, only amused at your poor logic. Tom - 23/03/2011 09:24:05 PM 1375 Views
That's lawyer logic! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:50:37 AM 1296 Views
Is there any other kind? *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 02:05:27 PM 671 Views
Ooh that's harsh. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:48:50 AM 1303 Views
This is all I get???? Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:54:22 AM 1360 Views
Oh, I appreciate. There's cake in the fridge *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:27:20 AM 647 Views
You two are sooo cute! *NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 07:29:12 PM 556 Views
+1, though I probably wouldn't have said it in quite the same way. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:03:07 PM 1314 Views
Yup. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 01:42:16 AM 1398 Views
That's a good analogy. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:50:17 AM 1424 Views
Shrug. She likes *me*. Plus, Jewish guys love Asian girls, well-known fact. beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:46:56 AM 1323 Views
So it's not her choice who she wants to date, but everyone around her?? Helene - 24/03/2011 09:39:58 AM 1278 Views
What's wrong with wanting to preserve races or ethnic groups? ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:09:02 AM 1357 Views
When its the black race? *NM* Urza - 24/03/2011 02:21:13 AM 681 Views
You're such an ass *NM* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 02:52:12 AM 658 Views
*butts in* nossy - 24/03/2011 02:45:26 AM 1381 Views
"It would be wrong, immortal [sic] even". Tom - 24/03/2011 02:52:21 AM 1420 Views
Or potentially not (directly) from Africa nossy - 24/03/2011 03:06:36 AM 1234 Views
I've only seen "identifies as" when someone is of mixed race. *NM* Tom - 24/03/2011 03:09:51 AM 633 Views
You're absolutely right. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:14:49 AM 1346 Views
Then your argument is even sillier, as mixed race is too white Helene - 24/03/2011 09:50:15 AM 1211 Views
Is he "identifying as" black in a cultural context as well? Tom - 24/03/2011 02:04:43 PM 1200 Views
Re: *butts in* ßelals Girl - 24/03/2011 03:03:14 AM 1237 Views
You're a damn genius! nossy - 24/03/2011 03:09:26 AM 1336 Views
I don't feel like one ßelals Girl - 25/03/2011 01:17:07 AM 1293 Views
Re: This has to be one of the stupidest reasons for not dating someone I've ever heard. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:07:36 AM 1361 Views
That could be argued in the opposite way just as easily. Helene - 24/03/2011 09:48:16 AM 1300 Views
Huh Aeryn - 25/03/2011 11:15:58 AM 1308 Views
Are you looking for reasons not to date him, or are you just being overly socially conscience? Beqi - 23/03/2011 08:12:48 PM 1304 Views
Ha. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:17:26 AM 1321 Views
Heh, that really is the best thing *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 04:48:07 AM 680 Views
...wat. Is this a serious post? Ghavrel - 23/03/2011 08:23:04 PM 1316 Views
Kinda? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:23:12 AM 1361 Views
I just broke up with my Pakistani girlfriend Dark Knight - 23/03/2011 08:24:52 PM 1311 Views
Heh heh heh heh snoopcester - 23/03/2011 08:25:06 PM 1158 Views
Ha, I didn't even see that typo. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 05:14:40 AM 1206 Views
<3 You Ana, BUT Urza - 23/03/2011 08:44:11 PM 1303 Views
wait. did you..? Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:37:23 AM 1303 Views
Your taken aback by this why? Urza - 24/03/2011 06:30:46 AM 1360 Views
I thought this was a great post. Legolas - 23/03/2011 10:26:08 PM 1367 Views
Glad I could entertain. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:47:48 AM 615 Views
I understand what you are saying. Tashmere - 23/03/2011 11:04:44 PM 1300 Views
An ally! Score! Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:56:53 AM 1256 Views
Aw, you're a darling. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:26:39 AM 1309 Views
Also somebody brought up the valid point of his rights. Tashmere - 26/03/2011 11:55:49 PM 1311 Views
There's not a wealth of eligible men from any race; maybe you should just stop dating entirely. Joel - 23/03/2011 11:27:40 PM 1240 Views
Well, yeah. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:49:47 AM 1162 Views
The critically large word is "if"; your reasoning is setting off massive circular claxons for me. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:30:15 PM 1109 Views
he is not a resource, he is a man. *NM* Aisha - 23/03/2011 11:29:37 PM 732 Views
Cock is a resource. *NM* Urza - 23/03/2011 11:43:39 PM 648 Views
"Efficient allocation of cock?" Oh my, that sounds really wrong. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:32:23 AM 649 Views
seriously? that is dumb. date the man. also, it is dehumanising to refer to him as a resource. temeraire - 24/03/2011 12:52:38 AM 1367 Views
This is exactly it. Dan - 24/03/2011 04:02:10 AM 1380 Views
I didn't quite. I was talking about the economic principle. *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:42:57 AM 636 Views
<--Black Guy Post Daiyon - 24/03/2011 12:57:13 AM 1451 Views
Re: Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:53:07 AM 1350 Views
Um. rebelaessedai - 24/03/2011 01:00:47 AM 1475 Views
Well, according to stand-up comics who specialize in racially based humor... TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 01:29:35 AM 1362 Views
Practical advice. I like it. Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:58:24 AM 1370 Views
Practical advice! *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 03:58:34 AM 636 Views
... how did you? *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 04:31:14 AM 710 Views
I don't know! Our posts are about 1/10 of a second apart, freaky. *NM* Vivien - 24/03/2011 04:35:23 AM 639 Views
1/6 of a minute. But it's still a comical coincidence. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 24/03/2011 09:52:19 PM 671 Views
But that means if he's OK with it he's a commodity more rare and valuable than gold. Joel - 25/03/2011 11:37:48 PM 1221 Views
I present to you: A VISION OF THE FUTURE-UTRE-UTRE-UTRE beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 02:19:19 AM 1418 Views
Oh, that was awesome *NM* Aeryn - 24/03/2011 03:37:01 AM 681 Views
+ 10 best post ever. I can't believe how funny that was. *NM* Timthetrolloc - 24/03/2011 03:54:39 AM 691 Views
What just happened? *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 04:04:45 AM 646 Views
*NM* ironclad - 24/03/2011 08:32:36 AM 571 Views
Awesome *NM* Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:03:13 AM 747 Views
I am currently dating a black woman... MightyYT - 24/03/2011 06:29:03 AM 1308 Views
...I always figured your name was a Snow Crash reference *NM* beetnemesis - 24/03/2011 03:48:53 PM 670 Views
I have had the nickname longer than that has been out. *NM* MightyYT - 24/03/2011 07:08:02 PM 692 Views
Don't date him. Stephen - 24/03/2011 09:44:30 AM 1307 Views
Its not likely anyone will read this comment since there are so many already MalkierKnight - 24/03/2011 01:12:19 PM 1523 Views
She's not talking about welfare queens, she's talking about well educated black women Helene - 24/03/2011 01:33:48 PM 1369 Views
It is. *NM* Ghavrel - 24/03/2011 09:33:01 PM 624 Views
this might help you understand what she is talking about random thoughts - 25/03/2011 02:24:35 PM 1387 Views
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