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What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere Send a noteboard - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM
Like several people pointed out, by itself it could be taken either way or maybe she is in the transistion phase of accepting that she doesn't have to have him with her in everything she does.

However. What you said about him speaking of her condescedingly? Whole different ball game. If my husband spoke of me in a condescending manner it would be over. Poof! Finished. That is intolerable.
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I'm like this with my future in-laws too. *NM* Clover - 19/04/2011 04:47:05 PM 541 Views
I think they are right ironclad - 19/04/2011 10:20:39 AM 1270 Views
I see your point Helene - 19/04/2011 10:42:51 AM 1227 Views
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I think that's an unfair assumption. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:16:54 PM 1025 Views
What he said about his wife's mother Helene - 19/04/2011 02:59:32 PM 1197 Views
Ew. I would have a problem with that too. Something about that attitude makes me dig in my heels. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:37:38 AM 947 Views
No offense... ironclad - 19/04/2011 02:35:53 PM 1172 Views
yes but have you found such a thing? random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:05:35 PM 1104 Views
For now I have *NM* ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:08:17 PM 569 Views
how long has it been? *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:32 PM 551 Views
Don't try to corrupt me with your long term pessimism ironclad - 19/04/2011 03:34:39 PM 1048 Views
sadly I seem attracted to the crazies *NM* random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:08:14 PM 540 Views
Yes. But it didn't start out like that. Took years to chip away all our rough edges. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:40:29 AM 1115 Views
Could be either snoopcester - 19/04/2011 10:30:50 AM 1148 Views
True enough... Helene - 19/04/2011 10:44:28 AM 1114 Views
My opinion is the latter. Macharius - 19/04/2011 01:55:00 PM 1117 Views
He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 01:56:49 PM 1099 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Macharius - 19/04/2011 02:07:34 PM 1083 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations snoopcester - 19/04/2011 02:13:25 PM 1202 Views
I should have read this first. Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:25:16 PM 1131 Views
Re: He definitely has a point about realistic expectations Sareitha Sedai - 19/04/2011 02:23:14 PM 1112 Views
You don't strike me as the "screeching-howler-monkey" type to begin with. *NM* Macharius - 19/04/2011 03:33:41 PM 543 Views
I love just about everything about you Sareitha. Good answers all. *NM* Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:26:34 AM 516 Views
I translated "I will think about it" as a secret but obvious code for. "I don't really want to but Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:34:36 AM 1223 Views
that's what I would have meant if I said "I'll think about it" *NM* LadyLorraine - 20/04/2011 02:00:33 AM 509 Views
The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot random thoughts - 19/04/2011 02:09:27 PM 1207 Views
To be fair, me and my fiance have been together for about as long as they have Helene - 19/04/2011 02:57:03 PM 1052 Views
I don't know about everyone but things changed when we got married random thoughts - 19/04/2011 03:16:11 PM 1089 Views
How did things change? Helene - 19/04/2011 04:14:56 PM 1090 Views
Like I said I can only speak for myself random thoughts - 19/04/2011 04:54:04 PM 1128 Views
There's already a 10 year old in the picture for us Helene - 19/04/2011 06:52:44 PM 1072 Views
My husband and I don't understand why people say this. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:03:31 AM 1169 Views
I did say I was only speaking for myself random thoughts - 20/04/2011 01:58:45 PM 1100 Views
I know. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 09:01:11 PM 1333 Views
Sorry for some reason I thought you had just got married. random thoughts - 20/04/2011 09:52:24 PM 1552 Views
Good luck to them! *NM* rebelaessedai - 22/04/2011 04:25:38 AM 530 Views
Re: The fact that you are referring to a fiancé and comparing it to wife says a lot Tihs Tnuc - 19/04/2011 04:34:34 PM 1009 Views
From the information that you have presented... Jeordam - 19/04/2011 03:50:19 PM 1279 Views
I am in agreement with you, and I'm not particularly Christian. Helene - 19/04/2011 04:11:57 PM 1025 Views
Which is sad (not the agreement, but their potential future) Jeordam - 19/04/2011 06:29:47 PM 1103 Views
Oh yes... I'm of course not sure. I can be way off base :-) Let's hope I am. Helene - 19/04/2011 06:55:13 PM 1096 Views
Could go either way. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 04:36:02 PM 1052 Views
I get the impression that it's more about her forming toward him than vice versa Helene - 19/04/2011 06:56:37 PM 1072 Views
Giving up is one thing, growing past is another. Dannymac - 19/04/2011 10:00:55 PM 1017 Views
Oh, to be fair, he's the friend and she's the wife Helene - 20/04/2011 08:43:12 AM 988 Views
I don't necessarily think it will end in a breakup or divorce. Clover - 19/04/2011 04:44:11 PM 1043 Views
I think you are 100% right about having a good realtionship with your spouse's family random thoughts - 19/04/2011 05:07:12 PM 1055 Views
I think this is about priorities. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 01:07:20 AM 1199 Views
Our priorities may shift over time, too. We're still very young and more tied to our families. Clover - 20/04/2011 03:09:54 AM 1005 Views
Even when younger, I was independent. rebelaessedai - 20/04/2011 05:29:59 AM 942 Views
*nods* Clover - 20/04/2011 06:25:29 AM 1126 Views
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Not the former for sure, and maybe not the latter. Palatine - 19/04/2011 05:55:03 PM 1101 Views
I think it's impossible for me to judge their future status without knowing more about them LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 07:22:32 PM 1057 Views
Can't tell. nossy - 19/04/2011 10:04:27 PM 1020 Views
I'm with the 'can't tell' crowd. Antigone - 19/04/2011 11:37:17 PM 1456 Views
hell, or she could just not care too much at all LadyLorraine - 19/04/2011 11:43:21 PM 1051 Views
What you said in the original question wouldn't neccessarily mean much to me either way. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 01:56:55 AM 1077 Views
It's not all out "she's worthless", it's more like "she's a bit silly with all her wishes" Helene - 20/04/2011 08:46:49 AM 1041 Views
That would still be a deal breaker for me. Tashmere - 20/04/2011 11:49:09 PM 1052 Views
I'm leaning more towards your interpretation. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 20/04/2011 02:15:22 AM 505 Views
I don't know. *NM* (I feel bad for the 20 people who viewed this message- my apologies) Vivien - 20/04/2011 04:36:13 AM 1095 Views
I'm with you on this. *NM* Camilla - 20/04/2011 10:00:41 AM 552 Views
*sigh* Yunalesca - 20/04/2011 09:25:02 PM 1169 Views
Re: I mean, it's not good. *NM* Gaps - 20/04/2011 11:50:21 PM 494 Views
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