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You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM
I said the answer on this is one only you can find. Someone might be able to say "Yes, I was the same, now me and my wife have biweekly ménage à trois' with a Thai ladyboy" and it will click in your head "YES! Transexual Southeast Asian prostitutes, that's what's missing from this relationship!" but that is just taking pot shots in the dark and hoping you strike lucky, in the end you're going to have to find the answer within yourself.

You say nothing is missing, but unless you have an addiction (in which case seek professional help) something clearly isn't right.


Something is only missing if you think flirting with other people is morally wrong. If a man flirts, feels satisfied in only doing that, never once cheats, is that morally reprehensible? I think a little flirting is not wrong. That's what I striving for. Right now, I'm full out trying to seduce women, but I want to make it to where it's just harmless flirting, because I know I will never kcik the habit all the way. It's just my personality. I'm looking for some advice as to how to mentally get myself to a position where the urge to continue the flirtation is stopped.
Formerly Mat Bloody Cauthon on Wotmania, blessed be its name
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2121 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1377 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1250 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1255 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1311 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1272 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1286 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1267 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1485 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1351 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1295 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1337 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1357 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1502 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1259 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 713 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1325 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 672 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1183 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 835 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 669 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1214 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 703 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1304 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1163 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 635 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1264 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 662 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1255 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1254 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1317 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1433 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1177 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1379 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1228 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 670 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1433 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1308 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1523 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1243 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1233 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1290 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1389 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1406 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1300 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1239 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1280 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 660 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 746 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1270 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1175 Views
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