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It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM
I wouldn't have a dilemma if I didn't truly love my wife. She's perfect for me. I want to spend the rest of my life with her. But the best moments in life are the passionate ones, the ones that get your heart pumping. Chasing women does this. Any advice? How should I handle this? I haven't gone totally over the line yet, but I fear that's only a matter of time.

This sounds like you want advice on how to do it, not how to stop doing it.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2094 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1354 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1228 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1232 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1284 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1246 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1266 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1238 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1455 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1332 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1273 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1312 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1330 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1472 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1229 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 698 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1303 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 658 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1159 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 818 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 661 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1189 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 694 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1286 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1143 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 626 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1244 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 652 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1232 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1227 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1293 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1416 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1151 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1354 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1207 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 661 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1408 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1281 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1499 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1218 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1212 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1265 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1370 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1381 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1275 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1218 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1257 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 652 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 734 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1245 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1140 Views
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