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I get where you're coming from Orange Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM
I think it's this way for most men really. Not sure how it is for women. I think after some time it's really hard to get excited by your spouse.
OTOH it could be you need to examine your marriage more closely. Maybe change something, maybe couples therapy could open something that's locked inside.

I'm going to therapy with my girlfriend and it's been good mostly.

EDIT: some things don't translate well to english.
This message last edited by Orange on 12/02/2013 at 02:03:18 PM
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2035 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1301 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1179 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1167 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1233 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1185 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1213 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1190 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1381 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1282 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1218 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1245 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1258 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1410 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1169 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 667 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1241 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 624 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1113 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 780 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 633 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1132 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 653 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1241 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1092 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 602 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1169 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 621 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1161 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1169 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1236 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1364 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1111 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1299 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1157 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 623 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1349 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1229 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1432 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1144 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1157 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1209 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1301 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1328 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1211 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1164 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1206 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 631 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 706 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1187 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1069 Views
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