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I still find it difficult to read it as anything other than a coerced consent Stephen Send a noteboard - 17/08/2012 01:08:15 PM
I mean, I see why the show did it the way they did to get the effect they wanted (a TV show can't convey the emotional distress of Daenerys' situation as well as a running stream of consciousness in the novel), but it seems to me that Camilla's perspective has been skewed by seeing someone else's interpretation first.

In the book, Drogo does not impose himself by force, and seeks and obtains her verbal consent and even participation, at least in the part shown.


Did Dany really have the capacity to refuse? To that end, I still would consider it rape.
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Firstly, Camilla is a she. Secondly, though I won't speak for her, regarding the rape in the novels, Ghavrel - 14/08/2012 02:23:19 AM 2839 Views
When does he use rape in an erotic manner? A Deathwatch Guard - 14/08/2012 05:48:59 AM 2669 Views
like all the time. Foxhead - 14/09/2012 04:45:42 PM 2774 Views
Camilla is indeed a she. Camilla - 14/08/2012 06:18:58 AM 2698 Views
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I for one never saw any of the rapes as erotic imlad - 21/08/2012 05:04:11 PM 3036 Views
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How is that a violent rape? At worst it would be statutory rape. Cannoli - 17/08/2012 11:53:44 AM 2846 Views
The wedding night is statutory. I would describe the later rapes as fairly violent. Camilla - 17/08/2012 12:13:26 PM 2954 Views
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It is not necessary to provide a scene Camilla - 17/08/2012 10:49:20 PM 2761 Views
I believe that what is happening here is called confirmation bias *NM* Kotagg - 21/08/2012 06:23:38 PM 1506 Views
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Re: A Game of Thrones by George R. R. Martin Camilla - 14/08/2012 06:25:11 AM 2719 Views
I think you misread one part Dark Knight - 14/08/2012 04:51:34 PM 2866 Views
I think that the Rhaegar and Lyanna stuff does look like rape in the first book Stephen - 14/08/2012 08:10:27 PM 2648 Views
"Looks like" is this case meaning "explicitly stated to be that way"? Cannoli - 17/08/2012 11:56:48 AM 2654 Views
Currently kicking myself Camilla - 15/08/2012 06:43:36 AM 2982 Views
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what a great review. you echo my thoughts quite a bit... temeraire - 15/08/2012 01:21:38 AM 2607 Views
Re: what a great review. you echo my thoughts quite a bit... Camilla - 15/08/2012 07:39:24 AM 2928 Views
philippa gregory co-authored a book "the women of the cousins' war" - it was very interesting temeraire - 16/08/2012 07:54:50 PM 2660 Views
Wait...why would you waste time reading this fluff series when it's out on TV? Tom - 16/08/2012 12:10:32 AM 2812 Views
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Se noteboard. *NM* Camilla - 16/08/2012 06:29:39 AM 1402 Views
Game, set, and match *NM* Praziquantel - 18/08/2012 03:50:38 PM 1366 Views
I always liked the banners and pageantry - it creates an interesting contrast... lord-of-shadow - 16/08/2012 11:52:40 PM 2569 Views
Re: I always liked the banners and pageantry - it creates an interesting contrast... Camilla - 17/08/2012 06:33:24 AM 2849 Views
I think the TV series handles the problematic Dany/Drogo relationship better Werthead - 17/08/2012 12:20:16 AM 2778 Views
Re: I think the TV series handles the problematic Dany/Drogo relationship better Camilla - 17/08/2012 06:40:12 AM 2842 Views
I think it messed it up by showing forced intercourse without the verbal consent Drogo DID obtain Cannoli - 17/08/2012 12:07:14 PM 2814 Views
I still find it difficult to read it as anything other than a coerced consent Stephen - 17/08/2012 01:08:15 PM 2575 Views
A perpetrator-less crime then. Cannoli - 17/08/2012 07:26:26 PM 2728 Views
Exactly! I'm on board, Cannoli. Kotagg - 18/08/2012 07:45:56 PM 2587 Views
You are missing the point. Camilla - 18/08/2012 11:11:33 PM 2833 Views
Re: You are missing the point. Werthead - 19/08/2012 01:25:30 PM 2793 Views
Re: You are missing the point. Camilla - 19/08/2012 01:40:11 PM 2870 Views
So, you're saying that Juliet was raped by Romeo??? imlad - 21/08/2012 05:24:56 PM 2783 Views
The later books do add more context and change some of this snoopcester - 19/08/2012 12:08:49 AM 2639 Views
Re: The later books do add more context and change some of this Camilla - 19/08/2012 07:27:59 AM 2769 Views
That makes sense snoopcester - 19/08/2012 02:35:36 PM 2396 Views
Jesus Christ another fucking thread about rape and fantasy. Dan - 19/08/2012 01:47:43 AM 1645 Views
Perhaps if reading other people's views makes you so angry, you should avoid reading them? *NM* snoopcester - 19/08/2012 02:37:03 PM 1419 Views
High blood pressure can kill, I hear. *NM* Camilla - 19/08/2012 03:33:14 PM 1490 Views
Nonsense. nossy - 19/08/2012 03:33:39 PM 1388 Views
Fixed it for you. Dan - 19/08/2012 08:22:18 PM 1486 Views
Oh, but that takes us back to snoop being right, and I'm sorry, but I just cannot abide that. nossy - 19/08/2012 10:56:10 PM 1436 Views
Shake the sand out of your vagina bitch. *NM* everynametaken - 20/08/2012 06:35:32 AM 1382 Views
Gosh, this is really turning into something fun. nossy - 20/08/2012 07:15:01 AM 1538 Views
Here I was about to make a "whee misogyny" post. I never get to have fun. *NM* Ghavrel - 20/08/2012 09:09:04 AM 1251 Views
Huh. I just came to the odd realization... Legolas - 20/08/2012 08:29:56 PM 1500 Views
Don't lock it! Dan - 21/08/2012 05:11:34 AM 1454 Views
Yes, I'm aware, or I might have locked it already. Legolas - 21/08/2012 06:17:29 PM 1320 Views
I'd ask that you do lock it. Stephen - 21/08/2012 10:00:48 PM 1399 Views
Fair enough. *NM* Legolas - 22/08/2012 06:26:04 PM 1301 Views
I may join you Camilla - 20/08/2012 10:14:50 PM 1478 Views
COME AT ME BRO *NM* Dan - 21/08/2012 05:09:34 AM 1350 Views
The interesting part is... ? - 28/08/2012 01:39:49 AM 2543 Views
That is the best written and most insightful review of that book I have read random thoughts - 01/09/2012 05:38:00 PM 2641 Views
I forgot that I was supposed to read all threads to watch out for Bad Behaviour. Rebekah - 01/09/2012 11:09:52 PM 2865 Views
i'm rereading the series now and yeah there is a LOT of rape Foxhead - 14/09/2012 04:38:27 PM 3291 Views
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