You essentially keep parroting out a line that sounds essentially like, "The committee made this decision and they know what they're doing". You don't sound like you understand how they arrived at their decision or how to reconcile the decision with the Bible as your church accepts it. I'm not asking your church to accept my own belief system. I'm just asking you to explain it, particularly in light of the gross errors you've made and the absolutely laughable statements that your church isn't bending to modern trends.