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So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT Send a noteboard - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM
Anyways, when I was married, I had a couple of chances to cheat. I didn't,but that is me. That is who I am. I made a commitment. I gave a vow that took seriously. Sometimes, it was really hard to keep that vow, especially when the ex stopped having sex. But I still could nor do it. There is no enjoyment for me in that situation.

But you are not me. Live your life how you like, just be prepared for the consequences.
Castle: This is so weird. I dressed up as him for Halloween.

Beckett: Me too.

~When Castle and Beckett met Gene Simmons.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2064 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1334 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1204 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1208 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1259 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1221 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1240 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1222 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1426 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1306 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1248 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1291 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1307 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1449 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1208 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 682 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1273 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 643 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1141 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 801 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 649 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1168 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 678 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1266 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1119 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 614 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1207 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 638 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1200 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1199 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1276 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1397 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1136 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1334 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1187 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 642 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1385 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1260 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1474 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1193 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1186 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1243 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1342 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1360 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1248 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1188 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1232 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 642 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 723 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1219 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1109 Views
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