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So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac Send a noteboard - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM
You asked people their opinions and we're giving it to you. I think what you are contemplating is terrible and you'll regret it. Also I think you already know that, or you just would have done it.

If you want to write it off as "holier-than-though" then go ahead, but you asked what we thought.

I think you are contemplating a huge mistake, and I think before you alter your lifestyle in this way you should at least be honest with the woman you claim to love.
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I am on the verge of having an affair Dark Knight - 11/02/2013 11:41:57 PM 2203 Views
Ditch the wife or stop being a prat. TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:30:30 AM 1453 Views
Great. Helpful advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:33:36 AM 1338 Views
What exactly do you want to hear? TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 12:47:06 AM 1341 Views
I don't know, something helpful Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 12:59:23 AM 1395 Views
The telling you to grow up bit wasn't the advice TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:09:54 AM 1355 Views
So there is no situation in which advice helps? Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:23:21 AM 1371 Views
I didn't say nobody could help you at all TheCrownless - 12/02/2013 01:41:19 AM 1351 Views
You're assuming a moral absolute Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:06:13 AM 1577 Views
It is called forsaking all others, and yes there are absolutes. HyogaRott - 13/02/2013 05:58:20 PM 1442 Views
My opinion ... Nate - 12/02/2013 01:21:38 AM 1389 Views
That's not really advice Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 01:28:42 AM 1419 Views
Why is it obvious? Nate - 12/02/2013 01:42:26 AM 1437 Views
That's exactly what I'm looking for Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 02:11:51 AM 1602 Views
I don't know if that's realistic. Nate - 12/02/2013 05:46:48 AM 1329 Views
Get therapy or get a divorce. Your wife deserves better than the person you're being now. *NM* Ghavrel - 12/02/2013 04:00:38 AM 776 Views
Careful you don't fall off that high horse Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:53:11 AM 1419 Views
You might try 4chan. Their morals seem more in line with the ones you're currently espousing. *NM* Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:29:04 AM 716 Views
What exactly did you want to hear? Dannymac - 12/02/2013 04:31:56 AM 1258 Views
More holier-than-thou judgment. Great thanks. *NM* Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:50:36 AM 889 Views
Well, he's a pastor, so he probably is holier-than-thou. *NM* Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:48:55 PM 716 Views
So what you wanted was a high five? Dannymac - 13/02/2013 04:21:57 PM 1292 Views
role play. *NM* temeraire - 12/02/2013 04:41:07 AM 748 Views
I appreciate something other than judgment. Thank you! Dark Knight - 12/02/2013 04:51:56 AM 1391 Views
i was poly for a decade. maybe that's a thing to consider? opening your marriage for both of you? temeraire - 13/02/2013 05:12:06 AM 1251 Views
If you don't have kids, then just leave the marriage or have an open relationship. *NM* Tom - 12/02/2013 05:19:27 AM 681 Views
You have 4 options A Deathwatch Guard - 12/02/2013 06:03:43 AM 1354 Views
If it isn't about the sex then swinging really won't help *NM* random thoughts - 12/02/2013 12:55:27 PM 712 Views
Number one is not an option, it is a looming and growing disaster. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:57:19 PM 1343 Views
So, you ask for advice, then get upset when you don't like it? MightyYT - 12/02/2013 06:04:07 AM 1358 Views
I'm not sure there's enough context to offer much useful advice, but I'd line up incentives Isaac - 12/02/2013 08:29:41 AM 1398 Views
It's probably the way you phrased it. Rebekah - 12/02/2013 08:41:06 AM 1520 Views
find another passion random thoughts - 12/02/2013 01:01:10 PM 1258 Views
I don't judge you. I am exactly the same way. ironclad - 12/02/2013 01:56:58 PM 1458 Views
I don't give a shit about polyamory. I give a shit about honesty. Ghavrel - 13/02/2013 09:26:56 AM 1318 Views
That's why I told him it's not okay, if he is lying to her. *NM* ironclad - 13/02/2013 10:00:04 AM 723 Views
That was kind of my take. Joel - 13/02/2013 02:53:05 PM 1518 Views
I get where you're coming from Orange - 12/02/2013 01:57:48 PM 1394 Views
Here is my advice. callandor1000 - 12/02/2013 03:49:55 PM 1615 Views
Well said. Joel - 13/02/2013 03:16:13 PM 1331 Views
LOL Dragonsoul - 12/02/2013 03:54:46 PM 1320 Views
Nice choice of words, there ironclad - 12/02/2013 04:04:15 PM 1380 Views
I don't know if I agree that you should talk to her about this. Sareitha Sedai - 12/02/2013 04:30:14 PM 1468 Views
If walking the line is the thrill, then keep walking the line. Aeryn - 12/02/2013 07:44:59 PM 1483 Views
Seeing your edit, I'm not sure you'll read this.... Jeordam - 12/02/2013 11:20:46 PM 1395 Views
The thrill of the chase ßelals Girl - 13/02/2013 02:38:59 PM 1301 Views
Do you want help making a decision, or validation of one already made? Joel - 13/02/2013 02:47:59 PM 1367 Views
Hehe, love that things are pretty much the same around here. *NM* Nefarious - 14/02/2013 12:29:56 AM 710 Views
I feel sorry for you *NM* Yunalesca - 14/02/2013 01:10:10 AM 793 Views
Best thing you can do is travel around and stay in hostels Sports_Gambler - 14/02/2013 02:24:50 AM 1358 Views
Be open to your wife about how you feel. Timthetrolloc - 14/02/2013 10:24:13 PM 1269 Views
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