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Who's on the phone? aerocontrols Send a noteboard - 14/11/2018 01:53:14 AM

It's your mom.


I mean, you're right that to refer to a person as 'it' when 'he' or 'she' or singular 'they' would do is insulting, but not correct that it is always wrong to refer to an adult as 'it', even when the person's gender is not in question. Because 'he', 'she' or 'they' will not always do.

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Aran'gar and the trans issue. - 13/11/2018 12:25:48 AM 844 Views
This is exactly why the knee-jerk response was so amusing. - 13/11/2018 01:18:28 AM 542 Views
I think you could argue it's surprisingly apt. - 13/11/2018 01:31:37 AM 575 Views
I don't know what's so hard to understand about this. You don't refer to people by 'it'. - 13/11/2018 08:09:34 AM 528 Views
People are refered to by "it" all the time.... - 13/11/2018 05:26:33 PM 532 Views
But remember, human fetuses aren't people. /s *NM* - 13/11/2018 05:42:00 PM 363 Views
Your second example rather proves my point, don't you think? - 13/11/2018 07:50:39 PM 532 Views
and those of us defending Cannoli maintain - 13/11/2018 07:59:08 PM 480 Views
I'm not really commenting on Cannoli's post.... - 13/11/2018 09:20:13 PM 509 Views
FWIW mine was concerning ambiguity - 13/11/2018 11:01:03 PM 542 Views
Okay, sure. - 13/11/2018 11:26:58 PM 554 Views
Interesting.... - 13/11/2018 11:36:43 PM 516 Views
Because it is just contempt - 13/11/2018 11:45:08 PM 669 Views
I think I mostly covered that above, but I can recap. - 14/11/2018 08:02:51 AM 535 Views
Who's on the phone? - 14/11/2018 01:53:14 AM 533 Views
Sure, I agree. - 14/11/2018 07:45:58 AM 538 Views
Aran'gar does not, and doesn't have to represent, trangender people for your usage to be wrong - 13/11/2018 03:21:42 PM 541 Views
Except that it isn't a person, it is a character in a book - 14/11/2018 02:57:12 PM 521 Views
So? - 14/11/2018 07:18:10 PM 521 Views
Re: So? - 17/11/2018 02:13:37 PM 500 Views
Upon reflection, I have edited the original post - 13/11/2018 08:02:17 PM 516 Views
Thank you. *NM* - 13/11/2018 11:31:41 PM 248 Views

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