As Paul wrote to the Corinthians, "who has known the mind of The Lord so as to instruct him. But we have the mind of Christ."

The mind of God, for believers, is beyond our comprehension. We can't grasp it. But we have the mind of Christ in the sense of the accounts of his words and actions. Ans as Paul also wrote, "Let each person examine his own work, and then he can take pride in himself alone, and not compare himself with someone else."

So in other words, worry about your own lack of compassion and not the choices made by others who are trying to serve God.