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Re: For the record... Isaac Send a noteboard - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM

My guess is the school board was probably sympathetic toward her, and simply was trying to take the pragmatic compromise approach because they viewed having the prom as more important and didn't want to interject politics into a major traditional and highly important social event, when faced on both sides by people more interested politics and winning their battle than letting children have their emotional important event, they chose to cancel the whole thing. Not sure I agree with that either, but I can't demonize them for it.


Well... it'd have been even easier to just go "Whatever, we don't care that you want to bring a girl to the prom."

Say there was going to be a parade that had the rule "No Blacks Allowed." Details don't matter, but inevitable outrage, legal action, whatever ensue, and the parade is given a choice: Either go through with the parade and withstand massive negative PR, or just stop being bastards and let them march.

Or... they can throw a hissy fit, go "We'd rather NO ONE march then let one single foot darker than my tan touch the pavement."


The school took option 3 in this case.


One could more or less say much the same about the young lady in question if one were of mind to, for the n-teenth time in this thread, I BELIEVE THE SCHOOLBOARD ACTING WRONGLY, I just do not think things are necessarily quite so clear cut as some would like to make it, and there's no particular need for me to detail their failings since everyone has already done it. I'm not in the habit of preaching to the choir.
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Mississippi High School cancels Prom after Lesbian Student Wanted to Bring a Girl as Her Date Aisha - 11/03/2010 11:56:10 PM 1724 Views
Seriously, wtf is wrong with the US? *NM* Tim - 12/03/2010 12:08:32 AM 277 Views
Not ALL of the US. There were same-sex couples at my prom. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 12/03/2010 12:26:24 AM 311 Views
Yeah, don't worry, I know it's not like that everywhere. Tim - 12/03/2010 09:15:43 AM 646 Views
This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 12:50:12 AM 890 Views
Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. heartbreak - 12/03/2010 02:03:32 AM 722 Views
Re: Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:12:04 PM 725 Views
Ummmm.... no. Napoleon62 - 12/03/2010 11:02:50 PM 736 Views
i totally agree 100% with what you're saying moondog - 12/03/2010 02:33:55 AM 847 Views
What??? Dannymac - 12/03/2010 02:53:13 AM 795 Views
Actually... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 04:56:03 AM 809 Views
Oh, it is definitely self-defense. Dannymac - 12/03/2010 05:52:50 AM 732 Views
That analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 06:10:27 AM 785 Views
Er... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:45:05 AM 670 Views
I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 01:39:19 PM 733 Views
... Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 02:05:54 PM 658 Views
I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 666 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 723 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 616 Views
Again, you're right. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:59:13 PM 599 Views
Yup. Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 04:02:26 PM 704 Views
Not really. Her point is that they should both be illegal. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:01:47 PM 630 Views
Re: That analogy is not apt. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:06:51 PM 675 Views
And when the school refused to change it's policy... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:25:03 PM 631 Views
Absurd. Macharius - 12/03/2010 08:27:19 PM 700 Views
The rules were unjust. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:09:59 AM 734 Views
Wow, talk about proving my point! Cannoli - 12/03/2010 11:04:34 PM 839 Views
So hang on. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:04:58 AM 716 Views
It's not that I'm surprised they disagree. It's that they're Wrong. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:39:30 AM 706 Views
Re: This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:31:06 PM 751 Views
Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 717 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 743 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 679 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 674 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 653 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 590 Views
Re: What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:01:00 AM 708 Views
I would love to argue with you Tashmere - 15/03/2010 11:03:48 AM 599 Views
It is a great case of Selective Outrage, IMHO Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:10:01 AM 748 Views
Maybe. Ghavrel - 12/03/2010 06:34:42 AM 748 Views
"ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 12:31:14 PM 673 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Macharius - 12/03/2010 01:53:39 PM 695 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:04:43 PM 656 Views
As is often the case, there seems to be a fair amount of assumption going on here. Legolas - 12/03/2010 02:22:48 PM 652 Views
Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 707 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:23:54 PM 682 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:17:25 PM 677 Views
That wasn't the impression I was under beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:23:08 PM 576 Views
Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 723 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 616 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 670 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 681 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 663 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 699 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 724 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM 703 Views
No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 576 Views
Alternatively, I have little sympathy for the school, I just don't have much for her either Isaac - 12/03/2010 11:56:08 PM 687 Views
Don't you think you're sensationalizing this just a bit? Aemon - 12/03/2010 05:42:21 AM 676 Views
Actually it is that reductionist Roland00 - 12/03/2010 01:46:23 PM 670 Views
Re: Actually it is that reductionist beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:25:41 PM 747 Views
I have issues with both sides, I think snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:44:06 PM 637 Views
Regardless of "rights" invovled, I don't see why she shouldn't be able to go as she pleases. LadyLorraine - 12/03/2010 05:25:31 PM 716 Views
When I was in high school, my girlfriend and I formulated a petition so we'd be able to attend Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:55:33 PM 795 Views
Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 792 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 717 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 779 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 602 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 577 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 641 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 622 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 579 Views
I typically agree with you nossy - 13/03/2010 09:19:27 PM 680 Views
Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 617 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 581 Views
Is she a child or an adult? IIRC she's 18 Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:33:39 PM 638 Views
No, it should not nossy - 14/03/2010 12:33:56 AM 841 Views
Re: No, it should not Isaac - 14/03/2010 01:16:33 AM 744 Views
I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 290 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 681 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:44:17 AM 556 Views
This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 712 Views
Re: This is definitely true Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:18:11 AM 954 Views
He wasn't neccessarily advocating it. He was translating what they were doing into something that Tashmere - 16/03/2010 01:37:59 AM 646 Views
I'd argue that that kind of hypocrisy is invaluable in today's world, actually. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:46:16 AM 620 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 08:18:03 PM 641 Views
Re: It does nossy - 13/03/2010 09:30:21 PM 575 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 10:11:21 PM 771 Views
Re: It does nossy - 14/03/2010 12:11:11 AM 675 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 03:42:06 AM 717 Views
Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 721 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:09:18 AM 689 Views
You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 266 Views
Ah, yes, "the rules." beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:47:31 AM 608 Views
Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 661 Views
Slippery slope arguments are stupid. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:43:00 AM 560 Views
So is likening everythng back to the Civil Rights Movement ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:17:54 AM 720 Views
"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 626 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 735 Views
Damn. Poor liberals, all revved up with nothing to fight for. *NM* Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:16:12 PM 441 Views
So... they were ready to fight something bad, and nothing bad happened beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:30:02 PM 564 Views
Teenaged lesbians Angel Barchild - 15/03/2010 06:55:12 AM 677 Views
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