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Your comments are inconsistent Isaac Send a noteboard - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM
Yes, I realize "you must wear some type of clothing, you may not wander around naked" is technically a dress code, but that's... silly. Semantics.

All I know is that, in my personal experience, I've never been so tied up in what I was wearing that I suddenly worked extra hard because I had a useless scrap of silk around my neck, or just decided not to do work because I was wearing sweatpants.

It mostly bugs me because the whole thing is so arbitrary, and taken very seriously by... well, people like you, it would seem. Hats used to be a must for a gentleman, though you'd take it off inside, or in the presence of a lady, or any other number of bits of trivia.

Now, hats are much rarer- yet some people would still silently judge you for wearing a hat indoors.

Honestly, why would you even care what someone else is wearing? It's so meaningless.


In one set of replies you say dress codes are meaningless, then you title this one by saying "Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux""... which one is it? Dress codes are meaningless or there's a difference implying that dress codes have meaning?
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I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 801 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 848 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 751 Views
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Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 845 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 865 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 814 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 802 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 789 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 721 Views
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Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 847 Views
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Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 851 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 743 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 802 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 802 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 815 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 851 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 873 Views
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No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 702 Views
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Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 920 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 838 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 904 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 739 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 700 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 768 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 748 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 691 Views
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Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 747 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 715 Views
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I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 354 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 805 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:44:17 AM 688 Views
This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 835 Views
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Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 849 Views
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You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 321 Views
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Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 811 Views
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"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 748 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 875 Views
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