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Ah, yes, "the rules." beetnemesis Send a noteboard - 15/03/2010 01:47:31 AM

As for her, she doesn't get much sympathy from me. She tried to use the courts to change things to her specifications, the school pushed back, and now the prom is canceled. She ruined it for everybody because she couldn't have her way. No, it wasn't intentional, but it happened because she didn't think the potential consequences of her crusade through before embarking on it. While I can see the students being angry with the school, I can also understand them being angry with her. Maybe being in the hotseat with her classmates will get her to think things through next time. It's always good to think about the people who could get caught in the crossfire before embarking on any crusade. She didn't, and those people are now angry with her. Life lesson.


It really irritates me how you and a few others seem to think she doesn't deserve any sympathy. She "tried to change things to her specifications?" It was an UNJUST RULE. Next you'll be saying "It's the nail that sticks up that gets pounded down."


Basically, your post is saying "its her own damn fault for standing up for something. Next time, don't make waves."
I amuse myself.
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Mississippi High School cancels Prom after Lesbian Student Wanted to Bring a Girl as Her Date Aisha - 11/03/2010 11:56:10 PM 1866 Views
Seriously, wtf is wrong with the US? *NM* Tim - 12/03/2010 12:08:32 AM 299 Views
Not ALL of the US. There were same-sex couples at my prom. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 12/03/2010 12:26:24 AM 341 Views
Yeah, don't worry, I know it's not like that everywhere. Tim - 12/03/2010 09:15:43 AM 696 Views
This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 12:50:12 AM 946 Views
Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. heartbreak - 12/03/2010 02:03:32 AM 778 Views
Re: Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:12:04 PM 783 Views
Ummmm.... no. Napoleon62 - 12/03/2010 11:02:50 PM 795 Views
i totally agree 100% with what you're saying moondog - 12/03/2010 02:33:55 AM 901 Views
What??? Dannymac - 12/03/2010 02:53:13 AM 863 Views
Actually... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 04:56:03 AM 871 Views
Oh, it is definitely self-defense. Dannymac - 12/03/2010 05:52:50 AM 788 Views
That analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 06:10:27 AM 850 Views
Er... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:45:05 AM 724 Views
I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 01:39:19 PM 791 Views
... Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 02:05:54 PM 718 Views
I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 732 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 782 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 680 Views
Again, you're right. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:59:13 PM 656 Views
Yup. Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 04:02:26 PM 758 Views
Not really. Her point is that they should both be illegal. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:01:47 PM 690 Views
Re: That analogy is not apt. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:06:51 PM 739 Views
And when the school refused to change it's policy... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:25:03 PM 681 Views
Absurd. Macharius - 12/03/2010 08:27:19 PM 757 Views
The rules were unjust. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:09:59 AM 796 Views
Wow, talk about proving my point! Cannoli - 12/03/2010 11:04:34 PM 897 Views
So hang on. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:04:58 AM 775 Views
It's not that I'm surprised they disagree. It's that they're Wrong. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:39:30 AM 760 Views
Re: This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:31:06 PM 803 Views
Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 773 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 801 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 749 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 732 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 718 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 649 Views
Re: What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:01:00 AM 766 Views
I would love to argue with you Tashmere - 15/03/2010 11:03:48 AM 660 Views
It is a great case of Selective Outrage, IMHO Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:10:01 AM 807 Views
Maybe. Ghavrel - 12/03/2010 06:34:42 AM 804 Views
"ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 12:31:14 PM 724 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Macharius - 12/03/2010 01:53:39 PM 754 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:04:43 PM 710 Views
As is often the case, there seems to be a fair amount of assumption going on here. Legolas - 12/03/2010 02:22:48 PM 710 Views
Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 774 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:23:54 PM 752 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:17:25 PM 742 Views
That wasn't the impression I was under beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:23:08 PM 629 Views
Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 787 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 671 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 732 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 742 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 731 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 772 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 791 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM 761 Views
No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 632 Views
Alternatively, I have little sympathy for the school, I just don't have much for her either Isaac - 12/03/2010 11:56:08 PM 746 Views
Don't you think you're sensationalizing this just a bit? Aemon - 12/03/2010 05:42:21 AM 729 Views
Actually it is that reductionist Roland00 - 12/03/2010 01:46:23 PM 732 Views
Re: Actually it is that reductionist beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:25:41 PM 808 Views
I have issues with both sides, I think snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:44:06 PM 695 Views
Regardless of "rights" invovled, I don't see why she shouldn't be able to go as she pleases. LadyLorraine - 12/03/2010 05:25:31 PM 779 Views
When I was in high school, my girlfriend and I formulated a petition so we'd be able to attend Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:55:33 PM 852 Views
Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 849 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 772 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 830 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 664 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 634 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 699 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 684 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 630 Views
I typically agree with you nossy - 13/03/2010 09:19:27 PM 736 Views
Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 678 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 644 Views
Is she a child or an adult? IIRC she's 18 Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:33:39 PM 699 Views
No, it should not nossy - 14/03/2010 12:33:56 AM 901 Views
Re: No, it should not Isaac - 14/03/2010 01:16:33 AM 808 Views
I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 318 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 737 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:44:17 AM 615 Views
This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 767 Views
Re: This is definitely true Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:18:11 AM 1013 Views
He wasn't neccessarily advocating it. He was translating what they were doing into something that Tashmere - 16/03/2010 01:37:59 AM 698 Views
I'd argue that that kind of hypocrisy is invaluable in today's world, actually. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:46:16 AM 683 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 08:18:03 PM 720 Views
Re: It does nossy - 13/03/2010 09:30:21 PM 636 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 10:11:21 PM 830 Views
Re: It does nossy - 14/03/2010 12:11:11 AM 733 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 03:42:06 AM 774 Views
Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 786 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:09:18 AM 755 Views
You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 287 Views
Ah, yes, "the rules." beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:47:31 AM 665 Views
Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 739 Views
Slippery slope arguments are stupid. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:43:00 AM 624 Views
So is likening everythng back to the Civil Rights Movement ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:17:54 AM 776 Views
"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 681 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 796 Views
Damn. Poor liberals, all revved up with nothing to fight for. *NM* Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:16:12 PM 470 Views
So... they were ready to fight something bad, and nothing bad happened beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:30:02 PM 622 Views
Teenaged lesbians Angel Barchild - 15/03/2010 06:55:12 AM 739 Views
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