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Your comments are inconsistent Isaac Send a noteboard - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM
Yes, I realize "you must wear some type of clothing, you may not wander around naked" is technically a dress code, but that's... silly. Semantics.

All I know is that, in my personal experience, I've never been so tied up in what I was wearing that I suddenly worked extra hard because I had a useless scrap of silk around my neck, or just decided not to do work because I was wearing sweatpants.

It mostly bugs me because the whole thing is so arbitrary, and taken very seriously by... well, people like you, it would seem. Hats used to be a must for a gentleman, though you'd take it off inside, or in the presence of a lady, or any other number of bits of trivia.

Now, hats are much rarer- yet some people would still silently judge you for wearing a hat indoors.

Honestly, why would you even care what someone else is wearing? It's so meaningless.


In one set of replies you say dress codes are meaningless, then you title this one by saying "Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux""... which one is it? Dress codes are meaningless or there's a difference implying that dress codes have meaning?
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... Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 02:05:54 PM 720 Views
I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 732 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 782 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 682 Views
Again, you're right. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:59:13 PM 657 Views
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It's not that I'm surprised they disagree. It's that they're Wrong. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:39:30 AM 760 Views
Re: This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:31:06 PM 803 Views
Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 773 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 801 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 749 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 732 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 718 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 649 Views
Re: What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:01:00 AM 768 Views
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Maybe. Ghavrel - 12/03/2010 06:34:42 AM 804 Views
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As is often the case, there seems to be a fair amount of assumption going on here. Legolas - 12/03/2010 02:22:48 PM 712 Views
Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 774 Views
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That wasn't the impression I was under beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:23:08 PM 629 Views
Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 787 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 673 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 733 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 742 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 731 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 772 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 793 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM 761 Views
No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 632 Views
Alternatively, I have little sympathy for the school, I just don't have much for her either Isaac - 12/03/2010 11:56:08 PM 746 Views
Don't you think you're sensationalizing this just a bit? Aemon - 12/03/2010 05:42:21 AM 731 Views
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I have issues with both sides, I think snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:44:06 PM 695 Views
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When I was in high school, my girlfriend and I formulated a petition so we'd be able to attend Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:55:33 PM 852 Views
Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 849 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 772 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 832 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 664 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 635 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 699 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 685 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 632 Views
I typically agree with you nossy - 13/03/2010 09:19:27 PM 736 Views
Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 678 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 644 Views
Is she a child or an adult? IIRC she's 18 Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:33:39 PM 699 Views
No, it should not nossy - 14/03/2010 12:33:56 AM 901 Views
Re: No, it should not Isaac - 14/03/2010 01:16:33 AM 810 Views
I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 318 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 738 Views
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This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 768 Views
Re: This is definitely true Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:18:11 AM 1013 Views
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Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 786 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:09:18 AM 757 Views
You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 287 Views
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Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 741 Views
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"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 681 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 796 Views
Damn. Poor liberals, all revved up with nothing to fight for. *NM* Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:16:12 PM 470 Views
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