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Your comments are inconsistent Isaac Send a noteboard - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM
Yes, I realize "you must wear some type of clothing, you may not wander around naked" is technically a dress code, but that's... silly. Semantics.

All I know is that, in my personal experience, I've never been so tied up in what I was wearing that I suddenly worked extra hard because I had a useless scrap of silk around my neck, or just decided not to do work because I was wearing sweatpants.

It mostly bugs me because the whole thing is so arbitrary, and taken very seriously by... well, people like you, it would seem. Hats used to be a must for a gentleman, though you'd take it off inside, or in the presence of a lady, or any other number of bits of trivia.

Now, hats are much rarer- yet some people would still silently judge you for wearing a hat indoors.

Honestly, why would you even care what someone else is wearing? It's so meaningless.


In one set of replies you say dress codes are meaningless, then you title this one by saying "Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux""... which one is it? Dress codes are meaningless or there's a difference implying that dress codes have meaning?
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Oh, it is definitely self-defense. Dannymac - 12/03/2010 05:52:50 AM 769 Views
That analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 06:10:27 AM 824 Views
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I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 01:39:19 PM 770 Views
... Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 02:05:54 PM 689 Views
I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 705 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 758 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 647 Views
Again, you're right. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:59:13 PM 636 Views
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Re: That analogy is not apt. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:06:51 PM 709 Views
And when the school refused to change it's policy... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:25:03 PM 662 Views
Absurd. Macharius - 12/03/2010 08:27:19 PM 736 Views
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It's not that I'm surprised they disagree. It's that they're Wrong. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:39:30 AM 740 Views
Re: This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:31:06 PM 785 Views
Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 750 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 776 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 712 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 709 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 689 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 625 Views
Re: What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:01:00 AM 744 Views
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Maybe. Ghavrel - 12/03/2010 06:34:42 AM 780 Views
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As is often the case, there seems to be a fair amount of assumption going on here. Legolas - 12/03/2010 02:22:48 PM 684 Views
Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 746 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:23:54 PM 719 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:17:25 PM 713 Views
That wasn't the impression I was under beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:23:08 PM 607 Views
Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 761 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 651 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 705 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 717 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 696 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 744 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 760 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM 733 Views
No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 606 Views
Alternatively, I have little sympathy for the school, I just don't have much for her either Isaac - 12/03/2010 11:56:08 PM 724 Views
Don't you think you're sensationalizing this just a bit? Aemon - 12/03/2010 05:42:21 AM 706 Views
Actually it is that reductionist Roland00 - 12/03/2010 01:46:23 PM 706 Views
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I have issues with both sides, I think snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:44:06 PM 670 Views
Regardless of "rights" invovled, I don't see why she shouldn't be able to go as she pleases. LadyLorraine - 12/03/2010 05:25:31 PM 751 Views
When I was in high school, my girlfriend and I formulated a petition so we'd be able to attend Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:55:33 PM 828 Views
Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 826 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 750 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 814 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 637 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 614 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 673 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 657 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 610 Views
I typically agree with you nossy - 13/03/2010 09:19:27 PM 714 Views
Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 652 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 613 Views
Is she a child or an adult? IIRC she's 18 Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:33:39 PM 667 Views
No, it should not nossy - 14/03/2010 12:33:56 AM 873 Views
Re: No, it should not Isaac - 14/03/2010 01:16:33 AM 786 Views
I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 306 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 713 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:44:17 AM 590 Views
This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 742 Views
Re: This is definitely true Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:18:11 AM 989 Views
He wasn't neccessarily advocating it. He was translating what they were doing into something that Tashmere - 16/03/2010 01:37:59 AM 680 Views
I'd argue that that kind of hypocrisy is invaluable in today's world, actually. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:46:16 AM 655 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 08:18:03 PM 686 Views
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Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 761 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:09:18 AM 723 Views
You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 278 Views
Ah, yes, "the rules." beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:47:31 AM 643 Views
Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 717 Views
Slippery slope arguments are stupid. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:43:00 AM 592 Views
So is likening everythng back to the Civil Rights Movement ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:17:54 AM 756 Views
"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 660 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 773 Views
Damn. Poor liberals, all revved up with nothing to fight for. *NM* Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:16:12 PM 456 Views
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