Your inability to understand the difference between a person's character and the right or wrong of a particular act, much less the irrelevance of the former to the latter, explains a lot about your apparently random and irrational positions.
If we don't support homosexuality or homosexual marriage, we're homophobes, even if we have no problem with actual homosexuals. If we have a serious moral issue with abortion, oh, I guess we hate women, apparently, even when providing support services, free medical aid and services, and offer opportunities for a non-murder method of getting rid of their unwanted child?