How could she tie off the flow to unravel at the exact moment Rand balefired her palace? I mean, come on The woman can't foretell for crying in a bucket.

I'd like to see how confused you guys would be if we didn't have a compelled victim suddenly reverse after a balefire attack. The fact that we have that is almost infallible evidence of balefire. It's not like the weave unravelled and left residues - it was completely gone and the man was unaffected. As I said, the only possibility is that another woman compelled him, and having Delana compelling victims ith exquisite skill in Graendal's palace is kind of ridiculous.