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Re: For the record... beetnemesis Send a noteboard - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM

My guess is the school board was probably sympathetic toward her, and simply was trying to take the pragmatic compromise approach because they viewed having the prom as more important and didn't want to interject politics into a major traditional and highly important social event, when faced on both sides by people more interested politics and winning their battle than letting children have their emotional important event, they chose to cancel the whole thing. Not sure I agree with that either, but I can't demonize them for it.


Well... it'd have been even easier to just go "Whatever, we don't care that you want to bring a girl to the prom."

Say there was going to be a parade that had the rule "No Blacks Allowed." Details don't matter, but inevitable outrage, legal action, whatever ensue, and the parade is given a choice: Either go through with the parade and withstand massive negative PR, or just stop being bastards and let them march.

Or... they can throw a hissy fit, go "We'd rather NO ONE march then let one single foot darker than my tan touch the pavement."


The school took option 3 in this case.
I amuse myself.
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Mississippi High School cancels Prom after Lesbian Student Wanted to Bring a Girl as Her Date Aisha - 11/03/2010 11:56:10 PM 1921 Views
Seriously, wtf is wrong with the US? *NM* Tim - 12/03/2010 12:08:32 AM 322 Views
Not ALL of the US. There were same-sex couples at my prom. *NM* TaskmasterJack - 12/03/2010 12:26:24 AM 367 Views
Yeah, don't worry, I know it's not like that everywhere. Tim - 12/03/2010 09:15:43 AM 741 Views
This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 12:50:12 AM 1003 Views
Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. heartbreak - 12/03/2010 02:03:32 AM 831 Views
Re: Just a few things that I know you'll proabably disagree with. Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:12:04 PM 838 Views
Ummmm.... no. Napoleon62 - 12/03/2010 11:02:50 PM 851 Views
i totally agree 100% with what you're saying moondog - 12/03/2010 02:33:55 AM 965 Views
What??? Dannymac - 12/03/2010 02:53:13 AM 925 Views
Actually... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 04:56:03 AM 928 Views
Oh, it is definitely self-defense. Dannymac - 12/03/2010 05:52:50 AM 841 Views
That analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 06:10:27 AM 898 Views
Er... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:45:05 AM 780 Views
I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 01:39:19 PM 845 Views
... Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 02:05:54 PM 770 Views
I think you mean "I'm afraid that again that analogy is not apt." snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:45:23 PM 786 Views
That's right, I forgot to add that. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:23:25 PM 836 Views
It's a rather key piece of any attempted analogy, wouldn't you say? Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 03:45:15 PM 735 Views
Again, you're right. Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:59:13 PM 704 Views
Yup. Sareitha Sedai - 12/03/2010 04:02:26 PM 810 Views
Not really. Her point is that they should both be illegal. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:01:47 PM 740 Views
Re: That analogy is not apt. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:06:51 PM 794 Views
And when the school refused to change it's policy... Dragonsoul - 12/03/2010 03:25:03 PM 731 Views
Absurd. Macharius - 12/03/2010 08:27:19 PM 811 Views
The rules were unjust. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:09:59 AM 843 Views
Wow, talk about proving my point! Cannoli - 12/03/2010 11:04:34 PM 953 Views
So hang on. Dannymac - 13/03/2010 05:04:58 AM 831 Views
It's not that I'm surprised they disagree. It's that they're Wrong. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:39:30 AM 805 Views
Re: This is the problem with liberals and their crusades like gay marriage. Macharius - 12/03/2010 02:31:06 PM 852 Views
Why don't you show me where I said marriage is holy OR made a religious argument, you imbecile? Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:32:42 PM 826 Views
actually, i thought i read that it was because she wanted to wear a tux instead of a dress moondog - 12/03/2010 02:46:00 AM 852 Views
Kind of a different can of worms then Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:20:35 AM 802 Views
What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 01:24:47 AM 786 Views
Hmm. Apparently it is legal to discriminate upon the basis of gender. Imagine that. Tashmere - 14/03/2010 02:45:51 AM 776 Views
It kind of makes sense, given the highly arbitrary and stereotypical nature of gender. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 03:35:44 AM 704 Views
Re: What?! Now that is a can of worms I could see getting in a fight over. Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:01:00 AM 822 Views
I would love to argue with you Tashmere - 15/03/2010 11:03:48 AM 717 Views
It is a great case of Selective Outrage, IMHO Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:10:01 AM 862 Views
Maybe. Ghavrel - 12/03/2010 06:34:42 AM 864 Views
"ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 12:31:14 PM 782 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Macharius - 12/03/2010 01:53:39 PM 810 Views
Re: "ACLU Defends Nazi's Right to Burn Down ACLU Headquarters" Isaac - 12/03/2010 03:04:43 PM 771 Views
As is often the case, there seems to be a fair amount of assumption going on here. Legolas - 12/03/2010 02:22:48 PM 764 Views
Just giving the benefit of the doubt... Isaac - 12/03/2010 02:57:23 PM 830 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:23:54 PM 798 Views
Re: "Pursuing their ideology" Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:17:25 PM 796 Views
That wasn't the impression I was under beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:23:08 PM 683 Views
Re: That wasn't the impression I was under Isaac - 13/03/2010 12:09:08 AM 838 Views
Pshhh there's a difference between "wear SOME clothes" and "wear a tux" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:40:37 AM 732 Views
Your comments are inconsistent Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:09:43 AM 790 Views
I think you're optimistic about what her chances would've been beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:13:38 PM 786 Views
For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 06:48:25 AM 791 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 01:04:33 PM 837 Views
Re: For the record... beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:08:06 PM 851 Views
Re: For the record... Isaac - 12/03/2010 08:08:42 PM 815 Views
No no, I know how you feel. I'm just disinclined to have sympathy for the school. beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:28:35 PM 688 Views
Alternatively, I have little sympathy for the school, I just don't have much for her either Isaac - 12/03/2010 11:56:08 PM 822 Views
Don't you think you're sensationalizing this just a bit? Aemon - 12/03/2010 05:42:21 AM 787 Views
Actually it is that reductionist Roland00 - 12/03/2010 01:46:23 PM 790 Views
Re: Actually it is that reductionist beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 07:25:41 PM 875 Views
I have issues with both sides, I think snoopcester - 12/03/2010 02:44:06 PM 755 Views
Regardless of "rights" invovled, I don't see why she shouldn't be able to go as she pleases. LadyLorraine - 12/03/2010 05:25:31 PM 835 Views
When I was in high school, my girlfriend and I formulated a petition so we'd be able to attend Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:55:33 PM 912 Views
Another thing I think people should remember - Lupine - 12/03/2010 07:59:43 PM 902 Views
One point though ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 08:40:32 PM 822 Views
Re: One point though Lupine - 12/03/2010 08:46:30 PM 890 Views
My point was that it was a hollow reassurance ßelals Girl - 12/03/2010 09:35:46 PM 724 Views
yah, but honestly, is a tux really going to upset anyone that much? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 04:50:08 PM 688 Views
Just because it wouldn't bother you doesn't mean it won't bother anyone else ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 06:38:03 PM 751 Views
It does nossy - 13/03/2010 07:35:39 PM 736 Views
Re: It does Isaac - 13/03/2010 07:48:35 PM 676 Views
I typically agree with you nossy - 13/03/2010 09:19:27 PM 792 Views
Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 13/03/2010 10:17:27 PM 735 Views
yah, but at this point, how much of it is the girl? LadyLorraine - 13/03/2010 10:24:57 PM 697 Views
Is she a child or an adult? IIRC she's 18 Isaac - 13/03/2010 11:33:39 PM 751 Views
No, it should not nossy - 14/03/2010 12:33:56 AM 950 Views
Re: No, it should not Isaac - 14/03/2010 01:16:33 AM 864 Views
I understood that. You explained it well. *NM* Tashmere - 14/03/2010 03:28:10 AM 342 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:49:34 AM 787 Views
Re: Following proper form shouldn't guarantee victory Isaac - 15/03/2010 02:44:17 AM 675 Views
This is definitely true beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 04:27:43 AM 824 Views
Re: This is definitely true Isaac - 15/03/2010 05:18:11 AM 1066 Views
He wasn't neccessarily advocating it. He was translating what they were doing into something that Tashmere - 16/03/2010 01:37:59 AM 743 Views
I'd argue that that kind of hypocrisy is invaluable in today's world, actually. Legolas - 16/03/2010 01:46:16 AM 737 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 08:18:03 PM 779 Views
Re: It does nossy - 13/03/2010 09:30:21 PM 692 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 13/03/2010 10:11:21 PM 892 Views
Re: It does nossy - 14/03/2010 12:11:11 AM 789 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 03:42:06 AM 822 Views
Re: It does Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:47:47 AM 837 Views
Re: It does ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:09:18 AM 802 Views
You make good points. *NM* Legolas - 15/03/2010 08:08:37 PM 313 Views
Ah, yes, "the rules." beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:47:31 AM 730 Views
Read my replies to Nossy and Ghavrel ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:01:29 AM 797 Views
Slippery slope arguments are stupid. Ghavrel - 14/03/2010 12:43:00 AM 677 Views
So is likening everythng back to the Civil Rights Movement ßelals Girl - 14/03/2010 04:17:54 AM 834 Views
"Dress codes exists for a reason?" beetnemesis - 15/03/2010 01:43:36 AM 737 Views
They do ßelals Girl - 15/03/2010 05:08:17 AM 855 Views
Damn. Poor liberals, all revved up with nothing to fight for. *NM* Cannoli - 12/03/2010 10:16:12 PM 495 Views
So... they were ready to fight something bad, and nothing bad happened beetnemesis - 12/03/2010 11:30:02 PM 675 Views
Teenaged lesbians Angel Barchild - 15/03/2010 06:55:12 AM 789 Views
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